Post Date November, 17 2024
Parents must establish correct sex education for their children and never treat it as a distortion. Incorrect sex education for children can greatly harm their psychological development.
What are the mistakes in children's sex education?
1. Suppress a child's curiosity
When children ask questions about how they were born, it's just a thirst for knowledge. When children are curious, as guardians, they should answer positively and never scold them, killing curiosity. Simply suppressing a child's desire for knowledge leads to their increasing stupidity and a sense of mystery, dirtiness, and guilt towards sex from an early age, which affects the healthy development of their sexual physiology.
2. Using fraudulent tactics
It is unwise for foolish guardians to always deceive children into picking up or jumping out of stone crevices, as children grow up to be dishonest. Some children touch their genitals with their hands and swear, but parents always curse, causing their children to behave cowardly and unable to develop independent habits. When children enter middle school and adolescence, they like to talk about sexual issues and may have dirty words when speaking. They believe that using this method to express themselves has become an adult, and the more confidential adults are, the more they want to know, which leads to incorrect beliefs for children.
3. Ugly sexual behavior
Some parents always describe sex as very dirty and obscene, and develop a aversion towards their children's sexuality. As they grow up, they may severely suppress their behavioral and habitual reactions. Even if a child has early love and qualified behavior, they should not take extreme measures. It will only harm children's self-esteem, promote decline, adopt a guiding and tolerant attitude, and provide correct sex education and assistance. If sexual education is too harsh, it may bring certain psychological conflicts to children and directly destroy them. Pornographic books and periodicals will bring excessive Sexual arousal to some children who lack sexual knowledge and are mentally immature, thus increasing the possibility of sexual crimes. Therefore, parents must reasonably divide children's works and adult works.
Kind reminder
Providing sexual education to children incorrectly can affect their future sexual and psychological development. Sexual education should start with children, allowing them to correctly distinguish between men and women. During adolescence, children should learn more about sexual physiology and hygiene related to sexual psychology.
