After entering puberty, the secondary sexual characteristics mature, and women experience menarche and male ejaculation. At this stage, interest in sexual knowledge and curiosity towards the opposite sex begin to emerge, leading to the emergence of sexual consciousness. At this stage, parents should do a good job of guidance to avoid going astray. They can understand the developmental stages of adolescent consciousness.
How does adolescent sexual awareness develop?
1. Heterosexual estrangement period
In early adolescence, a clear awareness of the gender gap makes them feel unfamiliar and uneasy. Due to a lack of knowledge about both sexes, fear or shyness can arise in front of the opposite sex, leading to the opposite sex being distant from each other. I don't know how to handle relationships with the opposite sex and maintain a certain distance between them.
2. Heterojunction
As psychological development matures, the thinking of both men and women continues to broaden. Now is the information age, with an increase in acquired sexual knowledge and a preliminary understanding of sex. Due to human instinct, the opposite sex can develop a desire to approach each other. When a little girl's boy has a liking for each other, he is willing to get close to each other, and their interactions become sensitive and cautious. At the same time, many middle school students are also very concerned about their appearance, pay attention to others' evaluations of themselves, enjoy creating various opportunities, interacting with each other, playing or studying together, and also enjoy interacting with the opposite sex with good feelings. In fact, this is a normal psychological manifestation and also healthy.
3. Yearning for the opposite sex period
With the development of psychology, there will be a favorable impression towards the opposite sex, and then enter a closer stage of understanding, which is the primitive love period. At this stage of love, it is not as rich and meaningful as adults, it is just a simple love, and teenagers cannot explain why they have a liking for the opposite sex.
4. Love period
The development of adolescence has entered the adulthood stage, where friendships are given to the opposite sex who they like. They often spend time together, help each other in work and study, take care of each other in life, and prepare for a happy life after marriage. At this stage, young people pay little attention to their surroundings. Women are always full of romantic fantasies, longing for sadness, and are prone to feeling sad. Men have a strong desire to love others, which satisfies their sense of independence and makes them feel excited.
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