How do parents respond to their children's sexual problems? With a natural and normal attitude

The news of a fifth grade girl's crying father in the same class after pregnancy has attracted attention. While surprised, there are many reasons behind it that have been reflected upon. Have we ever lacked sex education for our children, or did we not have proper guidance?

How should parents handle their children's sexual issues?

1. The child pointed to their parents' reproductive organs and asked when it was and how to say it?

Answer: Such questions often confuse many parents, leading to a serious psychological war between answering and not answering. But please don't forget anything. The child is now waiting for your answer with expectant eyes. If your child is just a preschooler, simply tell them about the penis. Dad's urine will flow out from that place.

2. Can't I take a shower with the child?

a: Of course, bathing with preschool children is also a form of sex education. Taking a shower with father and son can teach children a lot about human body knowledge. When a child grows up and doesn't want to take a shower with you, or begins to have low sexual activity, it's time to stop taking a shower with father and son.

3. Should I remove the nude girl painting?

a: If you treat that painting as a work of art, I don't think it's necessary to remove it. The result is only a realistic depiction of the real human body. Not to mention the famous painting that has been hanging for a while, isn't it even more strange to take it down at this time? Perhaps you can teach children how to appreciate the beauty of human art through this painting, and even become a sex education theme in your home.

4. He will lift the girl's skirt, what should he do?

Answer: For a preschool child, the things covered always make them the most curious. They want to know what treasure is hidden under the skirt? That's not related to pornography. At this point, the smart one should ask him: Do you want to know what's in your sister's dress? Or ask him: What do you want to know? After he finished speaking about his ideas, everyone had something they couldn't let others see. No one else can see except for their parents taking a shower. If anyone sees your chick, be sure to tell your parents. Sister wearing a skirt means not to be seen by others, of course not.

Pay attention to privacy and cultivate good habits

1. Parents should pay attention to personal privacy issues when dressing and changing; Moreover, parents should also avoid their intimate relationships and actions to prevent their children from making incorrect associations and learning from others.