How do parents respond to children's sexual problems? How to do sex education for children

Childhood sexual enlightenment is very important. This will affect their understanding of sex, but parents play an irreplaceable role in children's sex education. So, parents should never take their words and actions lightly, and should always pay attention to them. Otherwise, the child will also follow suit, and in severe cases, it will bring serious psychological barriers to the child. Today, the editor will tell parents to pay attention to these behaviors.

Attention should be paid to the issues of children's sex education

Unconscious maternal love affects sexual psychology

Xiao Liang is 13 years old this year and is currently studying at a boarding school. Initially, he didn't have any worries. He accidentally heard some plot in the yellow video discussed by his classmates, and nervously, terrifyingly, and unconsciously learned that the boy was the "pearl" of the family. Since childhood, under the indulgence of his mother's "maternal love without taboos", he slept with his mother every night and had to touch her breasts before falling asleep until he was 13 years old. When he heard some sexual information from his classmates, he developed disgust and fear towards his previous behavior, resulting in a "sense of sexual guilt".

Many mothers mistakenly believe that I am his mother, and I can never do too much for her. It's nothing strange to sleep together. Indeed, maternal love is the greatest and most selfless love in the world. But for sons, mothers are also opposite sex, and numerous studies have shown that mothers' behavior has a significant impact on children's sexual and psychological development. Abnormal maternal infant relationships can lead to sexual and psychological disorders in children. Premature sexual stimulation of children, including parental sexual exposure, hearing sexual conversations, and genital manipulation by adults, is considered one of the reasons for adult sexual abnormalities.

Deliberately avoiding children's behavioral questions

One morning, 4-year-old Xiaoxiao pushed away the people in his parents' bedroom, while his father was still wearing shorts and no clothes in bed. Xiaoxiao asked, "Dad, why are you so bulging there?" Mom awkwardly replied, "Because there's a little mouse hidden in Dad's place..." Xiaoxiao thought it was fun and shouted for a little mouse. Xiaoxiao's parents don't know what to do.

This awkward scene is common in daily life, as the mother believes she has concealed the past, but her behavior has distorted the child's gender and gender. In this awkward scene, the performance of parents is very important, friendly, easy-going, nervous, and panicked. Whether it is seen as nature or a raging beast, it leaves a imprint on the child's heart. At this point, all our guardians need to do is calmly tell the child that men and women are different, but it is natural for you to be both men and women. The hyperbolic cosine value of.