There are many examples of old husbands and young wives in the celebrity circle, with an age difference of over 20 years between couples. Generally speaking, males aged 18-25 are at the peak of their sexual desire, and after the age of 40-50, their sexual ability is greater than before. However, due to the peak sexual desire of women being between the ages of 30 and 40, the real problem faced by elderly couples is that sexual life is difficult to coordinate, and men cannot meet the needs of women during sexual life. The larger the age difference, the more difficult it is to coordinate sexual life. Failure to adjust in a timely manner can affect the feelings between couples.
How do elderly couples enjoy sex?
1. Men need to control the frequency of sexual intercourse
Older men need to lead the psychological preparation for sexual intercourse, control the frequency of sexual intercourse, arrange the intensity and frequency of sexual intercourse according to their own will and physical fitness, have time, and maximize the satisfaction of women.
2. Make sexual partners feel your favor at all times
No matter what age group of women, they hope to gain pleasure from their partner's physical contact, hoping that the other party can provide warmth and caress. Therefore, men must often let their wives spoil them and frequently come into contact with intimate bodies.
3. Women must accept the differences between husband and wife from their hearts
In terms of sexual life, women cannot simply complain, ridicule, or criticize. Since we have chosen this marriage, we must take good care of each other and accept the physiological differences between husband and wife in our hearts to avoid affecting their happiness in life.
4. Timely compensating for insufficient sexual ability
Older husbands have weak sexual desire but rich sexual experience, which compensates for their insufficient sexual abilities. Due to older men's understanding of the sensitive areas of women, they can appropriately prolong foreplay to stimulate sexual excitement, effectively control the erection time of the penis, and enable both men and women to achieve sexual pleasure.
5. Men participate more in physical exercise
Men should reduce their sedentary and lying time, participate in more physical exercise to enhance their physical fitness, and actively control their three highs. Occasionally perform anal lifting movements to maintain sexual function.
6. Receiving professional guidance
If the male sexual ability is low and almost lost, they can choose a regular hospital to seek professional doctor's guidance, use reasonable medication to maintain the hardness of the penis erection, and only need one or two successful attempts to improve male confidence. Do not abuse aphrodisiacs with self nourishing kidney. Some traditional Chinese medicines have the effect of tonifying the kidneys and strengthening yang, but are made from animal penile and testicular components. This medicine is warm and dry, and long-term use can cause dryness of the mouth, thirst, redness and swelling of the eyes, dry stools, insomnia and dreaminess, and increased blood pressure. In severe cases, it can cause a stroke and threaten life.
7. Adjusting the mood
Elderly couples need to overcome many problems in their sexual life, but they must put their emotions aside and actively handle and handle them. As long as it is handled properly, pleasure can be obtained from sexual intercourse. Couples can communicate more, gradually coordinate, and identify common sexual preferences and sexual orientations. They can also choose sexual equipment to increase sexual pleasure.
Warm Reminder
Old couples must pay attention to their sexual life. Especially for couples over the age of 20, the safety of sexual activity should be given top priority. If men have sufficient physical strength, their sexual frequency will increase appropriately, while if their energy is not good, their sexual and sexual activities will decrease. Furthermore, sexual activity should not be too intense. As long as you feel uncomfortable, you must stop immediately and drink brown sugar water or white sugar water to help your physical recovery. Couples should engage in more communication and exchange, learn more common knowledge about sexual relationships, be open to each other, cherish each other, and consolidate a happy marriage life.