Post Date November, 17 2024
From the perspective of children's sexual violence, our Chinese style sex education lacks the corresponding knowledge of sex education among Chinese teenagers and children. Faced with such sexual problems, it cannot be dealt with, resulting in a series of incidents related to children's sexuality, with serious consequences and high costs. So, how to instill sex education knowledge into one's own children?
Especially when it comes to children's sexual questions, how can we answer them? Now parents are having a headache. Let's take a look at a case study. The mother suspected that his daughter had been violated. Mr. Liu's family of four came to Guangzhou from their hometown four years ago and opened a small hotel near Guangzhou North Station. In early July of this year, Mr. Liu discovered that his 9-year-old daughter, Xiaoqi, had stains on her underwear and the color was incorrect. He went to the hospital to prescribe several traditional Chinese medicines for her daughter. After a few days of medication, it got dirty again. Mom tried to ask Xiaoqi, has anyone ever touched the place where they pee? Xiaoqi nodded innocently and told her mother about Xiaorui's father from the next door. Mom's heart suddenly sank, how did she touch it? Just touch it outside. The daughter gestured to her mother through her pants.
The father of Xiaorui in the daughter's mouth is Mr. Qin, the taxi owner next door. He is about 50 years old, not tall, and very thin. My children play with their son every day. For the next few days, the mother's heart couldn't let go and couldn't let her daughter go to the neighbor's house to play. At the same time, she was worried that Xiaoqi would be wronged if she didn't know anything. In Ms. Liu's impression, this man doesn't speak much and sits in the store every day, hardly going out. Because the two families are from the countryside, they greet each other when they meet. When our family was facing financial difficulties in the past, we borrowed money from their family to turn around. For this man, my daughter didn't want to say much. Mr. Liu could only listen to a few words before going to bed, and most of Xiaoqi's answers were "I don't know! I forgot!" Daughter: My neighbor touched me in the urination area until the evening of August 5th. Under my mother's questioning, the girl said, "Mom, if I tell you the secret, will I get pregnant? Mom knew that Mr. Qin had warned Xiaoqi to reveal their secret, and Xiaoqi became pregnant. With his mother's comfort, her daughter slowly vomited, and Xiaohe's father said he had touched her 5 times and 3 times in the area where he urinated. The mother realized the seriousness of the problem and was worried about staying up all night. The next morning, she took her daughter to the hospital for examination.
The examination results showed that the 9-year-old girl was diagnosed with old rupture of hymen, pelvic inflammation, vaginitis and other gynecological inflammation, The vaginal opening is like this, there must have been sexual intercourse before. The doctor firmly told Mr. Liu that Mr. Liu immediately called the police. According to the girl happily going to play at the neighbor's house, the surveillance camera at Mr. Liu's doorstep called the police at 13:20 on the same day, and the police car drove to the neighbor's doorstep to take away Mr. Qin. At that time, Xiaoqi was at the doorstep, looking at everything in her eyes. She tightly grabbed Haha's collar and said, "Mom, I'm very scared. I see evil The demon was taken to the police car and did not return for several days. Xiaoqi confided the truth to her mother with peace of mind. In his daughter's description, Lao Qin ordered Xiao Qi to arrive home on time every weekend. Sometimes the two of them watched the computer together, and sometimes Lao Qin would touch her. After listening to his daughter's explanation, Mr. Liu called up the surveillance camera at his home for six months and reviewed it frame by frame. During surveillance, almost every weekend at around 9am, my daughter would run to her neighbor's house when she got up, skipping over every time. Xiaorui's father told me to jump and pass happily. If you don't follow the orders, you will beat me up very badly. The girl said to her mother.
However, Mr. Qin hardly appeared under surveillance and has always been the girl's own past. Seeing the child bouncing past every time, we thought she would go play with her classmates. How did we expect such a thing to happen?. Xiaoqi told her mother. According to surveillance on March 2nd, Xiaoqi was late and went to her neighbor's house at 10:50. Xiaoqi was wearing a pink dress, her hair was not combed, her pace was unstable, and she looked very nervous. Xiaoqi said that she was afraid of the man pulling her hair and using a mat basket to prick her. She wanted to scream, but the other person blocked her mouth with a towel. Sadly, this is the reason for the very lack of sex education.
