Post Date December, 03 2023
In the current era, people are constantly updating their values, and the era of relying solely on traditional moral norms to maintain love and marriage has passed.
In the new era, everyone must strive to learn and cultivate the ability to interact with others in order to survive in the crisis ridden modern society.
Today, the editor will talk about many users' reactions that when they fall in love, their surroundings are full of temptation. When there are romantic enemies, how can you protect your love and make your partner love you wholeheartedly and only?
Firstly, you need to learn to save love with your heart
The appearance of a romantic rival is not scary, indicating that the person you love is still charming, at least your vision is good.
If you know how to be considerate and satisfy the other person in their relationship, it is to "deposit" in a love account. Every time someone speaks out and causes pain to the other person, it is "spending" from the account.
If you have a large daily deposit, your love account will have a strong resistance to the temptation of romantic enemies. If it is an overdrawn bank deposit account, it cannot withstand any storms and blows.
Secondly, it is important to understand that the complementarity of personality in love is more attractive
Psychologist Jung believed that when choosing a partner, people often fall in love with the opposite sex with their own shadow personality.
His so-called 'shadows' refer to those temperament or personality traits that cannot be seen in oneself, that is, presented in the opposite sex he loves.
For example, one is calm and introverted, but falls in love with a passionate and outgoing opposite sex. The unique passion and outgoing personality of the other person is your shadow personality.
Love itself has many irrational elements. When a rival has personality traits that are opposite to your partner, you need to learn to cultivate this potential and let them know that this personality is not actually sacred. Only by possessing these two personalities can you step on reality and have a happy life.
Once again, learn to lower expectations for the other party
We know that many injuries are often not bestowed on us by the other party, but rather we ourselves value the other party too seriously. In love, the more you love someone, the easier it is for them to underestimate you.
Because love itself has asymmetry, when one person loves another deeply, this love will definitely depreciate in their hearts. When a person has no love for another person, they don't know what it means to care.
If you lower your expectations of the other person and focus your time on your own things, you will present your own unique beauty. How many people lose themselves due to love, without realizing that maintaining oneself is the only way to make their love thrive.
Finally, one should learn to be introverted and secretive
The more romantic enemies appear, the more you need to learn to hide them. If you don't let the other party know how many chips you have, they will feel that you are unfathomable.
When the other party is always curious about you, they won't miss you. Once you enter the other person's heart, you will become their beloved. The emergence of romantic enemies may be precisely what makes the other party struggle and make the right choice.
When a romantic rival appears, some things need to be done before saving love: you need to simplify your relationship and not let yourself feel uneasy because of the appearance of a romantic rival. You should know that many things should belong to you, they are yours. It's not yours, no matter how you keep it, it's useless. You need to work hard and let nature take its course, in order to do your best and obey fate.
