Post Date December, 03 2023
● Absolute self psychology: This kind of man regards whether the lover is beneficial to his future as the only unbreakable condition when choosing a mate. He asked his girlfriend to give full play to his advantages and bring him some benefits. Once his girlfriend's performance fails to meet his requirements, he will be furious and even feel that his girlfriend has failed him.
● Logic error association: This kind of man is usually full of association and suspicious. Generally speaking, he attaches great importance to love, but has a narrow understanding and is very sensitive to the actions of lovers. Once his girlfriend has done something that makes him unable to understand or unhappy, he will think about it and find out the evidence that he and his girlfriend are not the same.
● Non-emotional transfer into psychology: this kind of man has no sympathy for his girlfriend, and can't put himself in his girlfriend's shoes. Especially when his girlfriend is in a difficult situation and needs him to put his feelings into it, he often ignores or flinches. This kind of man can only share happiness with his girlfriend instead of suffering.
● False contrast psychology: This kind of man often compares his own or others' strengths with his girlfriend's weaknesses. In the early stage of the relationship with his girlfriend, he will soon find the advantages of the other party, and the relationship between him and his girlfriend will also rise in a straight line. But as long as he is accustomed to these advantages, his attitude towards his girlfriend will become extremely cold. And this kind of indifference often makes the girlfriend puzzled, and even becomes a kind of temptation and makes the other party sink deeper and deeper.
● Adapt to excitement: these men are generally fashionable and sensitive, but lack autonomy and self-confidence. They like trendy women, pay more attention to the appearance of their girlfriend's clothing, hair style and other images, and are also very willing to invest in this area for their girlfriend. However, once his girlfriend could not adapt to his aesthetic requirements, he would complain.
In short, when you find that your boyfriend has any of the above psychology in the process of interacting with you, don't take it lightly, but don't break up with him as soon as you find out. Because strictly speaking, any male will have the above psychology more or less. If you really love him, you might as well talk openly about your worries with him, so that he can also realize the danger of this psychological hazard. If you are new friends and the relationship between you is not deep, you can also talk to him. Of course, if you don't think it is necessary, you can also break up with him from now on. However, no matter what kind of approach you take, you should think carefully and not act hastily, so as not to bring you lifelong pain.
