He forced me to divorce for a third party, but after the divorce, he demanded that I fulfill my wife's obligations

The birth of a child has brought laughter to this family, and at the same time, my responsibilities have also increased. Children have a habit of crying at night, often crying without warning in the middle of the night. They ask me to play with them and often struggle for an hour before I go to bed. Therefore, I am very tired during the day, and after dinner at night, I want to go to bed early. As a husband and wife, we are becoming fewer and fewer. He is very dissatisfied with me, learning to play online games and falling in love with the nightlife outside. It is common for people to not go home after drinking until they reach their peak.

I am very worried that at this juncture, there is a woman outside of him. Many people say that out of ten, there are women who are the reason why men are reluctant to go home outside. I asked him directly if there were any women outside. He smiled faintly and said, 'How could it be? He's not that kind of person.'. I can rest assured that I am devoted to taking care of my child and have no defense against him. When my child was one year old, I became more sensible and my life routine almost returned to normal. But my husband is not normal anymore. His sexual activity between husband and wife is always delayed. If I ask him repeatedly, he will be very impatient or hasty, like a routine.

Last August, he confessed to me about his infidelity. After listening, I felt like the sky was falling. He told me that living with me is very oppressive, and my focus is on children and household chores, without understanding what he is thinking. He can't find a topic to communicate with me, and if it goes on like this, he will go crazy. And she, the third person he spoke of, could release him, and he would only be extremely relaxed when he was with the third person. He has long lost his feelings for me and hopes that I can let go and help him and the third party.

I cried, my hardworking family, he wants to destroy it himself, I can't accept it. I don't agree to divorce, so he gave me a cold war and deliberately found fault, openly cohabiting with a third party. His mother-in-law advised him not to be so self destructive, but he refused to listen to the advice. I can't persist in a life of compromise. I reluctantly signed the divorce agreement. I took the child away, she is too young to leave me.

A year later, he came to see me. It's said to be watching the baby. He's the biological father of the child, and I have no right not to let him watch. After accompanying the baby, he found various reasons not to go home. Afterwards, I heard that the third party had already broken up with him because they thought he was too scumbag and couldn't get on the stage. Now, he comes to me every day and night, and even offers to live with me as a husband and wife, saying that no matter whether we divorce or not, he is the father of the child, which is my obligation to him.

It's really shameless. I was ruthlessly abandoned in the past, but now I've suffered setbacks and come running to pester me again. What should I do in the face of his unreasonable provocation?