Great people are boiled out! Why boil?
Why can't a boss give up easily, no matter how difficult it is? And an employee who does not do well wants to escape?
Why can't a couple divorce easily, no matter how much they quarrel? And a couple often split up for some small things?
In the final analysis, how much you invest in one thing or relationship determines how much pressure you can bear, how much success you can achieve, and how long you can stick to it.
Feng Lun said, "Great things are all boiled out.". Why boil?
Because you have to bear the grievances that ordinary people can't bear. Ordinary people need others to understand and comfort, but you don't. Ordinary people vent their emotions by confronting negative accusations, but you must see love and light, and learn to transform and digest everything. Ordinary people need a shoulder to lean on when they are weak, and you are the shoulder that others rely on.
Xiaozhuang said to Kangxi, "Grandson, the greatest crisis of the Qing Dynasty is not the thousands of troops outside, but in your own heart."
Comprehension: The most difficult thing is not others' rejection and incomprehension, but whether you are willing to make changes for your dream!
Life is always realistic The poor use the cliff to come from the end, and the rich use the cliff to bungee jump. This is the difference between the poor and the rich.
Disciple asked: Shifu, you sometimes beat and scold people, and sometimes treat people politely. Is there any secret in this? Master said, "You can fight or scold the superior and treat him with the truth."; When dealing with the Chinese people, we should use metaphors to describe him. We should be careful. He can't stand beating and scolding; Treat the lower class with a smile and hands together. He is very fragile and small-minded. He should only be treated with secular etiquette.
Comprehension: What kind of grievance you can endure determines who you can become!
A person who can't swim can't solve the problem by changing the swimming pool;
A person who can't do things can't solve his own ability by changing jobs all the time;
A man who doesn't know how to manage love can't solve the problem by changing boyfriends and girlfriends;
A person who doesn't know how to manage a family can't solve the problem by changing his wife;
A person who does not understand the ethics of the workplace will never continue to succeed;
A person who does not understand proper health care can't solve the problem no matter how much medicine he takes or how good the hospital equipment is.
I am the root of everything. If you want to change everything, you must first change yourself! Learning is the fundamental to change yourself. In fact, you love yourself; You like yourself. What you love and what you hate are all yourself. If you change, everything will change. Your world is created by you. Everything you have is created by you.
Comprehension: once you reach heaven, you will go to hell. Where your heart is, your achievements are!