When there are no children between husband and wife, a woman will pour all her love into her husband. Once they have children, many women will shift their love for their husbands to their children, especially in sexual life. Women will no longer be as intimate with their husbands as they used to be, making them feel even more left out, which often affects the relationship between husband and wife.
When Jiang Jing and her husband first got married, their relationship was very sweet, and they had to live intimate lives two or three times a week. However, since the birth of children, there have been more and more disputes between them, and the husband always complains that his wife has snubbed him.
In the morning, the wife walks around the child; At night, the wife still revolves around the children.
The husband, who used to be eager to come home from work, now often invites several buddies to drink after work and then confides in his troubles. Unexpectedly, his buddies share the same feelings with him, complaining about his wife's "Don't want me if you have children.".
One day, Jiang Jing's husband returned home without intentionally telling her she was back. Anyway, his wife's thoughts were not on him, so he went to the study alone to surf the internet.
Jiang Jing saw her husband go home without saying hello, so when the child fell asleep, she quietly ran to the study and watched him fall asleep on the computer desk. Suddenly, she felt a sense of heartache. At that time, she realized that she had not been intimate with her husband for a long time.
She went to the kitchen to make a cup of milk tea for her husband, quietly placed it next to his desk, and then took a bath. She wore a sexy nightgown. When she walked into the study again, her husband was already awake. "Dear, I'm sorry, I just took care of the baby and ignored you during this time," the wife said gently to her husband as she massaged him on the shoulder.
The husband's heart softened when he heard his wife say this. "Don't just care about the children in the future, don't care about me anymore," the husband said to his wife like a cute boy. With that, the couple became intertwined.
In life, there are many men who feel this way because they cannot feel the love of their wives because they have children. At this time, a woman needs to balance the balance in her heart, with her husband on the left and her child on the right. Don't neglect her husband because of her love for the child, nor just focus on being intimate with her husband and neglecting the child. Only when a bowl of water is level can a husband and wife be sweeter. If it's really impossible, it's best to often say sweet words to men, so that men won't complain about you in their hearts.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)