Post Date December, 03 2023
After getting married, it's impossible to always be like a passionate love. The "attraction" between couples often weakens with the duration of marriage. So, how to enhance the attraction between middle-aged couples and make the tree of love evergreen? Below are eight exclusive tips from the editor to help you maintain the attraction between your husband and wife for a long time.
Exclusive Secret Collection 1: Leave Some Space for Your Lover
The combination of two sexes is the combination of emotions and life, not the dissolution of personality and personality, and neither side is a shadow of each other. Therefore, do not force yourself to be inseparable. Otherwise, just like constantly eating can make people lose their appetite, sticking together can also make people lose interest. The relationship between men and women can only be partially defined, with each party having their own friends and hobbies, and having more topics to discuss. When there is a separation, there is a moment of missing each other. Give each other a distance, a space, and let them yearn and wait with tenderness. So, appropriate separation can increase the freshness between couples. As the saying goes, "A little farewell is better than a new marriage." Psychologically speaking, this is due to artificially creating distance, which gives each other a fresh and evergreen image in their minds. A benign effect has been formed, in a sense, without distance, there is no freedom, without distance, there is no attraction, and the spacing of time and space often increases the intensity of love.
Exclusive Secret Collection 2: Creating Mutual Pleasure in the Common Pursuit of Career
As a social emotion, Aiqian is destined to be influenced by many factors such as social politics, economy, and culture, and cannot be isolated from the world. She is arrogant and isolated. Love is the driving force of career, and career is the sublimation of love. There may not be many people who hope that their loved ones must become strong, but anyone with a sense of responsibility to society hopes that their loved ones will pay attention to society, have a strong sense of career ambition, and constantly pursue their careers.
Therefore, after marriage, couples spend all day loving each other and sealing themselves in small circles of personal families, and the temperature of love is difficult to sustain. With new goals in their careers, couples can deepen their understanding and overcome difficulties together through shared values and pursuits, which will bring opportunities for new emotional integration.
Exclusive Secret Collection 3: Add New Content and Find New Fun
In addition to work, study, and household chores, efforts should be made to add new content to family life and create a favorable environment for emotional development; For example, during weekend activities, one can choose and cultivate a hobby that couples share. This helps to reduce the feeling of monotony.
Exclusive Secret Collection 4: For Yourong, For Youyue Yourong
The love of beauty is human nature, regardless of gender. After marriage, couples should prevent their pre marriage emotions and aspirations from becoming meaningless amidst rigid and repetitive household chores and mundane interactions day and night. Attention should be paid to embellishments, especially after women become married, they must not regard dedication and sacrifice to their family as their only meaning and obligation in life, neglecting the pursuit of a richer life. Plunging into the kitchen and playing the role of an 'old lady', one becomes disinterested or unkempt, becoming old and stiff. Even in middle age and even after entering old age, due to physiological reasons of both men and women, men's charm period is longer than that of women. At this time, it is even more necessary to make subjective efforts, seek common ground between both parties with deeper love and new understanding, and reshape their own style. No one can have a permanent red forehead, but "although innate beauty may be lost, artificial beauty is sufficient compensation". Proper light makeup and clothing, coupled with dignified and elegant, deep and generous, still give people a sense of brilliance. Although there is a saying about innate beauty in temperament, it is more about nurture.
(Intern Editor: Cai Junyi)
