Post Date December, 03 2023
Not only women will be lovelorn, but also men. For men, it is more difficult to get rid of the feelings of lovelorn because they can't express the pain of lovelorn externally. What should men do to get rid of lovelorn?
Men will also be lovelorn, so how can we get out of the pain of lovelorn? Lovelorn love is a very painful thing for both men and women. In this issue, our psychological experts specially introduce some methods for men to get rid of the shadow of lovelorn love, hoping that men can get out of the shadow of lovelorn love as soon as possible.
Men get rid of lovelorn and remember six "ones"
1. Cut it all at once: The lover in the dream cannot become a fact. The best result is, of course, to get rid of it as soon as possible. Feelings are like a knot, and those that cannot be broken must be cut off. "Cut" will definitely bleed, but the faster and sharper the action, the lighter the injury. Time can soothe everything. After a few weeks, your wound must heal. Never lie down and die for one person.
2. Kick it off: After the relationship breaks down, the negotiation is useless and can only prolong the pain. If you still think the other party is perfect, please carefully see how perfect the other party is. You list the unacceptable places in her character and record the reasons why "without her" can live better. Every time you feel dizzy, look at his (her) guilt again, and firmly kick her out of your world!
3. No matter how affectionate you are, don't be tempted by desire. Sometimes you will have hallucinations, as if the nightmare has passed, and everything can be better again. If she leaves, she has shown her attitude with facts, and it is not worth your effort to change anything. If you continue to communicate, you will be stuck in the mud.
4. Naked: Even if a woman breaks up, she likes to say, "If we are destined, we may be together again." Don't be fooled. The subtext is, you poor man, don't be depressed. I may need your help! Immediately admit that your relationship is over, and your naked mind is always refreshing.
5. Never be afraid: you should tell yourself a truth: people are often afraid. When you pursue her, you will be afraid of losing her; When you get her, you will be afraid that she will move on. When the lovelorn volcano erupts, you should relax and relax mentally, and the so-called courage is nothing more than that.
6. Once in a lifetime: Maybe you will think that this kind of thing always happens to you. Don't believe it, unless you meet people of the same type every time, you won't be the only one to be blamed. If you admit that luck plays a very important role in this kind of thing, hold it, and think about how many falls you fell before you learned to walk?
If none of these works:
You tried your last, but she left; You can't forget the above "one" after you try hard, then you have only one choice: use stronger willpower to get rid of her. Men should be cruel to themselves! Remember, don't turn back, it's a dead end!
(Intern editor: Zhao Minqing)
