Gender Marriage: When do men want to get married?
At the end of the year, many friends received many invitations one after another, and many couples chose to enter the marriage palace at the end of the year. Marriage should not be a flurry of pushing ducks onto the shelves, nor should it be the inevitable outcome of love to the death. Regarding marriage, we need more realistic and concrete considerations
Female friends are always unable to penetrate a man's heart and wonder when he has the idea of getting married. For many men, previous relationships are just a learning process, and the girls who leave are just passers-by. They appear to make him wait for a destined lover. All of her excellent qualities and the wonderful feelings she has given you prove one thing: there has never been, and it will be difficult to have another girl who can impress him like you in the future. Let's take a look at the four moments when a man wants to get married.
1. After waking up from alcohol
Many men have social engagements, and it is inevitable that they will get drunk sometimes. The next morning after being drunk, I had a splitting headache. Looking around, I found myself alone, vomiting all over the place, and the room was in a mess... A man would be in endless melancholy at this moment, but she still had to take care of herself. Thinking about how good it would be if there were a woman around him at the moment, he began to miss the anti alcoholic soup his mother had cooked.
Men also have moments of vulnerability, and when a man's heart is fragile, if you serve him closely, even his heart of stone will be melted. Therefore, it is advisable to take good care of a man after he is drunk, apply a towel, change clothes, and cook some rescue soup... When a man wakes up, he will find you waiting by the bed, without a rest all night, and his heart will surely be warm. At this moment, a man is most likely to talk about marriage. He deeply understands that having a warm family and a virtuous wife is a great happiness.
2. A hundred day banquet for friends and children
At a hundred day banquet for friends and children, when I saw a family taking a family photo with Le Rongrong, I thought that when I was still alone, men would have an impulse to get married immediately.
Men who are alone and lonely are the most reluctant to see other people pairing up or having a family together. If you're already his girlfriend, take him to more of these parties or go to the park on weekends to see other people's family dining or playing together. I often look enviously beside him and say in his ear some scenes of envy for the happiness of others and their families. A man who is not stupid will surely understand what you mean.
This is an appropriate tip for a man to lend a hand when he is hesitant, and the man will consider his personal affairs and enter the marriage prison according to your plan.
3. Drinking alone in a nightclub
Single men often go to nightclubs for recreation, both to kill time and to find a romantic or married partner amid the bustling lights. However, in nightclubs, when a man suddenly realizes that he no longer cares about young ladies, or is indifferent to beautiful women, and prefers to immerse himself in drinking alone, he has the idea of getting married.
The colorful world will never last long, and it will only last for a marriage that truly treats and nurtures each other and has a happy family. Men who have no intention of getting married always have a playful mindset, believing that love is a process of play, and that once played, it's okay. However, after experiencing many things, men settle down and just want to settle down as soon as possible, marry a wife, have children, and form a happy family. So if you accompany him to a nightclub, it's worth seeing if your boyfriend has such an abnormal reaction. If so, congratulations. If you work harder, you can reap the fruits of your marriage.
4. At year-end settlement
At the end of the year, everyone will do year-end settlement to see how much money they have earned and spent over the course of the year. At the end of a man's year, he discovers that he has already spent a huge amount on other unknown things and has no impression. At this time, the man really regretted not having found a finance minister to manage the income and expenditure of the family as early as possible.
If a man no longer wants to spend money recklessly, he will unconsciously save money. When he stopped buying non necessities and spent every penny carefully, he had the idea of getting married.
At this stage, female friends may as well let their boyfriends see more wedding photos, or start planning wedding details, so that men can speak out about their marriage. If your boyfriend doesn't have the habit of year-end settlement, help him make a year-end summary, list the money you've wasted, and give him a push.