Gender marriage: reveal the moment when men want to get married most
At the end of the year, many friends received many invitations one after another, and many couples chose to enter the marriage palace at the end of the year. Marriage should not be a flurry of ducks on the shelf, nor should it be the inevitable result of love to death. For marriage, we need more realistic and concrete consideration
Women friends always can't understand a man's heart and don't know when he wants to get married. For many men, the previous love is just a learning process, and the girls who left are just passers-by. Their appearance is to make him wait for a destined lover. All her excellent qualities and the wonderful feelings she gives you prove that there has never been, and it will be difficult to have another girl who can make him as attractive as you. Let's look at the four moments when men want to get married.
1. After waking up
Men have more entertainment, and it is inevitable that they will get drunk. The next morning after being drunk, she had a splitting headache. When she looked around, she was alone, vomited all over the floor, and the room was in a mess... The man would be in endless melancholy at this time, but she had to take care of herself. Think about how good it would be if there were a woman around him at the moment. He began to miss the antidote soup cooked by his mother.
Men will also have vulnerable times. If you are close to them when they are vulnerable, even the heart of stone will be melted. Therefore, it is better to take care of the man after he is drunk, put on a towel, change clothes, and cook some rescue soup... When the man wakes up, he will find you waiting at the bedside, and his heart will be warm. At the moment, men are most likely to talk about marriage. They deeply realize that having a warm family and a virtuous wife is a great happiness.
2. At the hundred-day banquet of friends and children
At the one-hundred-day banquet of friends and children, when I saw the family taking photos of the whole family, I thought that when I was still alone, men would have the impulse to get married immediately.
Men who are alone and lonely are most reluctant to see other people pair up or go out together. If you are already his girlfriend, you might as well take him to these parties or go to the park on weekends to see other people's family dinner or play. He often shows envious eyes beside him and speaks in his ear about envious scenes of other people's family's happiness. A man who is not stupid will understand what you mean.
In this way, give a proper hint to a man. When he is hesitating, he will consider his personal affairs and enter the marriage prison according to your plan.
3. Drinking alone in the nightclub
Single men often go to nightclubs for recreation. On the one hand, they want to kill time. On the other hand, they want to find a lover or married partner in the light of the lights. However, in the nightclub, when a man suddenly found that he no longer cared for the lady, or ignored the beauty, and preferred to drink alone, he had the idea of marriage.
The colorful world will never last long. It is all over the past. Only a marriage that is sincerely treated and nurtured by each other will last long and there will be a happy family. Men who don't have the idea of marriage always have a playful attitude, thinking that love is a process of play, and it's OK to play. But after a lot of things, the man decided to settle down as soon as possible, marry a wife, have a child, and form a happy family. So if you go to the nightclub with him, you might as well see if your boyfriend will have such an abnormal reaction. If so, congratulations. If you work harder, you will reap the fruits of marriage.
4. At the end of the year
At the end of the year, everyone will make year-end settlement to see how much money they have earned and spent in the year. At the end of the year, the man found that he had spent a huge amount on other things that he didn't know and had no impression. At this time, the man really regretted to find a finance minister to manage his family's income and expenditure.
If a man doesn't want to spend money recklessly, he will unconsciously save money. When he stopped buying some non-necessities and spent every penny carefully, he had the idea of getting married.
At this stage, female friends may as well let their boyfriends see more wedding photos, or start planning the details of the wedding, so that men can talk about marriage. If your boyfriend doesn't have the habit of year-end settlement, help him make a year-end summary, list the money you spend, and give him a push.