Post Date December, 03 2023
From "body language" to the heart of men, many men will wave their hands to express their feelings and wishes during the speech. However, the expression of this gesture really reflects that the "man's heart" says that the eyes are not deceiving, and the body movements are not deceiving. Now let's introduce the meaning of male "body movements"!
Point of view - gestures are not "made for nothing":
A little observation of a person's hand movements when talking about a certain point of view or opinion can reveal his attitude towards that point of view. If you find that the colleague sitting opposite uses his right hand to make auxiliary gestures (the opposite is true for left-handed people) when discussing a certain point of view in a meeting, you can basically conclude that he agrees with the view - because gestures can not only attract the attention of the other party, but also enhance the effect of the conversation. The greater the amplitude or intensity of the gesture, the greater the tendency towards this view.
Expectations - palms rubbing against each other:
This kind of action has two meanings: in addition to having a high expectation of the immediate event, the most typical example is that when we play dice, if we expect a good number of points, we will often rub the dice between the palms of our hands for a few times before throwing them out; In addition, he has a certain grasp of the things in front of him. In the description of many literary works, ambitious people always like to rub their hands.
Of course, compared with Westerners, our actions are not very obvious, and we tend to cover them up by holding hands, and the friction part is mostly the edge of the palm or the part under the thumb.
Of course, one thing to add is that if someone rubs their hands because of the cold weather, it should not be understood as such.
Confident posture - fingertips facing each other:
Compared with the palm rubbing, if a person makes the fingertips of both hands relative to each other, it is more clear that the person has a good idea of something or is very confident. If you observe carefully, you will find that this kind of gesture often appears in the conversation between the superior and the subordinate. If someone makes such a gesture on a certain question, you should know that the other person is more confident. However, a person's frequent changes in fingertip relative and finger crossing movements indicate that the person is in a state of measuring and evaluating the situation.
Decision moment - finger rubbing palm:
When people are in doubt or need to make a choice, they usually use their fingers to rub or pick their hands unconsciously. The most typical behavior is to hold their hands in a fist shape, rub their thumbs with other fingers, or use the thumb of one hand to rub or gently pick the palm of the other hand when holding hands. According to psychological research, this kind of hand contact often has the effect of comforting the brain and reducing pressure.
Thinking or perfunctory - hand support face:
We can often see this action in class or meeting, but its meaning is very rich. If your colleague puts his hand on the chin or cheek when you give an opinion, while the index finger and middle finger stand up close to the cheek or touch the chin, it means that the person is analyzing and thinking about your words. But if he loses interest in your topic, but has to show interest, you will find that the supporting part will change - not the finger, but the wrist.
