Story 1
Changgong Becomes a Young Master
(29 year old bagel staff)
Liu Heng is one year younger than me. When we were dating, he was like a long-term worker invited by my family, cooking, washing dishes, washing clothes, and mopping the floor. He was so diligent that even my parents felt a bit embarrassed. But now, after only two years of marriage, he has become a young master. My parents often help us cook while he reads newspapers and goes online.
I agreed to marry Liu Hengqin because I thought he was quick and kind to me, but I didn't expect this kind of outcome.
Comment: When a man is doing household chores, the most "afraid" thing is that you bring tea and towels, but you do the opposite: first give them to your parents, and then give them nagging, then he really "sleeps and meets a pillow".
Story 2
He pretended to shoot before marriage
(Anna, a 25-year-old civil servant)
Before marriage, he said he would always love me alone, and if I didn't want children, he would be willing to DINK. After marriage, he pestered me every day and asked, 'Wife, when will you give me a son?'?
Actually, I am not a very determined DINK person either. However, when I first fell in love, I wanted to play for a few more years, go to the gym, travel while young, and do things I wanted to do but didn't finish. So I told him that after marriage, I don't want to have children. It's too troublesome to have a child. He immediately raised his hands in agreement, saying that he only wanted to live in a world of two with me. At that time, I was still very moved, thinking that a man could not have children for a woman, so he must have had a deep affection.
Only after marriage did I realize that I was being self indulgent. This man is shameless and talks about the child at every opportunity. The more he is like this, the more rebellious I become and angrily tell him it's impossible. As a result, he began to resort to various tricks, using my parents as lobbyists to pressure my mother-in-law to hide condoms and deceive me into saying that Yuting from the nearby pharmacy had sold out
Comment: Before marriage, I only want to live with you in a world of two, but after marriage, I want to enjoy the happiness of a family of three, indicating that this man has matured. He is a scoundrel, indicating that he is still cute. I'm telling you so much good news to take back your complaint and mature with him.
Story Three
Once bitten by a snake
(Staff aged 77 to 35)
This year, on the 7th anniversary of my husband's marriage, we had a big argument. He said, 'It's really not possible, let's just leave.'.
This time it's because on October 5th, he's going to play board games with his clients, and I won't let him. He works in the hotel industry, and the vast majority of his clients are women, including some lonely and empty little rich women. I have lost trust in him since I discovered his relationship with a female guest at the hotel five years ago.
I can't bear to leave him, nor can I let go of the past. I live in entanglement and pain every day. When I had a quarrel with him before, he kept silent. Recently, he has stopped being silent, but I suddenly became afraid.
Comment: True love is self adjustment, self recovery, and the ability to return on its own after experiencing adversity and loss. We are all mortals, and there are times when we can't find the north. Giving him a chance is also a way of life for love.
Story Four
He said I won't grow up
(Ling Baobao, 27 years old full-time wife)
Perhaps my parents protected me too well. Before I met him in my sophomore year, I even blushed when talking to a boy. At that time, he always whispered softly to me, taking care of me like a brother, and I became increasingly dependent on him. After graduation, my job search was not smooth. He said, 'He doesn't need me to make money, it's his job to support his family in the future.'. I have been looking for several jobs one after another, but they didn't last long. Later, I simply didn't work because his income was indeed good.
After marriage, I realized that a man's promise cannot be trusted enough. He began to dislike me, saying that he didn't have a common language with me, that I couldn't do it, that I was too delicate, and I couldn't grow up... No matter how hard I worked on household chores, he couldn't see. What caught his eye was a female sales manager from a business unit who not only had a family, but also was older than him
Comment: Ning Caishen said that when he was young, he wanted to meet Nie Xiaoqian and sacrificed his life to love her; When she was young, she wanted to meet Bai Suzhen, who had a big family and a big business. After eating a soft meal, she wiped her mouth and someone was responsible for locking her up in the Leifeng Pagoda; When I was middle-aged, I wanted a snail girl. During the day, I added fragrance to her red sleeves, and in the middle of the night, I changed her back to her original shape. I added seasonings and stir fried her, and then started cooking and served on a plate.
The female netizen immediately replied that when she was young, she wanted to have fun with Linghu Chong in the world; When I was young, I wanted to go to the battlefield with Leader Qiao; In middle age, I hope to have Zhang Wuji who can find both ways; When I was old, I wanted Guo Jing, but my waist and legs were strong and I didn't hesitate.
It can be seen that both men and women are fickle. Women cannot be Nie Xiaoqian for the rest of their lives, nor can men be a fox charge for the rest of their lives. Love needs to grow and change