Post Date December, 03 2023
No marriage path for any couple is smooth and unobstructed, and there will always be crises, big or small. If left unchecked, crises will slowly breed and eventually undermine the harmony of marriage. Therefore, when there are a few minor flaws in the marriage, it is necessary to quickly solve them. Recommend 4 "emergency responders" for marital crises, hoping that couples and friends can make good use of them.
First responder: Honest
Honesty has always been an indispensable part of marriage. Be honest with each other at all times. When feeling abnormal in marriage, couples, especially men, should actively and frequently communicate with their spouses in all aspects of thoughts, emotions, and other aspects, to alleviate their work dissatisfaction, life twists and turns, and psychological pain and sadness over a period of time.
Completely and honestly tell your partner about your personality changes, your irritability, and your troubles and worries are not caused by her or him, but by other external reasons, in order to dispel doubts and concerns between husband and wife.
Second responder: tolerance
Couples need tolerance rather than blame. From numerous divorce cases, we have found that many couples still have feelings, but often they criticize each other because they are not accustomed to their words and behavior. Some even criticize each other in front of friends and family, causing embarrassment and exacerbating conflicts, leading to marital crisis.
In marriage, there is no right or wrong, and there is no right or wrong. In daily marriage life, both spouses should see the strengths of each other more, try to avoid complaining and blaming each other, and be tolerant and considerate to intensify conflicts. We should discuss the situation as it is, and not use the other party's mistakes and mistakes to slander them. This can only further harm each other's emotions.
Third responder: Calm down
Many couples have problems that are well-known to everyone, which is actually not good. When there is a crisis between a couple, it is important to avoid involving family or friends, especially the parents of both parties. Each family member will be more or less biased towards their own children. If one parent's family member is indiscriminate and blames the other without distinguishing right from wrong, rather than giving good advice on how to improve the relationship, it will deeply hurt the other's feelings. Accumulated over time, it can only deepen the gap between husband and wife, exacerbate conflicts, and ultimately fuel the flames and accelerate the breakdown of the marriage.
Therefore, when there is a crisis in the relationship, both spouses should actively face and calmly handle it, seriously eliminate barriers, and make their marriage happy and happy as before.
Fourth responder: sexual activity
It cannot be denied that sex is an important factor in maintaining a harmonious marriage. Because sex can allow couples to achieve physical and mental integration, making each other closer and emotional bonding higher. However, couples must limit their sexual activity to a state of mutual consent. And, we should actively expand our sexual capacity and create more happiness.
Perfect sexual life is an indispensable foundation for marriage. As long as two people actively participate, communicate more, eliminate unfavorable factors, and add more fun, sexual life can exert maximum initiative, allowing each other's souls and bodies to reach a state of harmony. Only in this way can we maintain a long-lasting and stable marriage.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
