Post Date December, 03 2023
Every woman aspires to find a good husband and be a good wife. Few people can achieve such a simple desire. Why? The reason is not complicated, just to say one thing here: Some husbands do well in their lives and careers, but having sex can be a headache for their wives. Without the nourishment of "sex", marriage cannot be happy. Therefore, the first thing most wives should resist is this kind of "bad husband" who has no awesome in sexual affairs.
In short, this type of "bad husband" can be divided into the following categories:
1、 No foreplay straight to the subject
A wife often regards gentle and considerate foreplay as a manifestation of love. Careful and considerate caressing is not only an appreciation of her body, but also a manifestation of her true feelings. Although many people understand this principle, there are still husbands who go straight to the topic without thinking about themselves, which only makes the wife feel disgusted, let alone perfect sex.
2、 Never wear a condom during sex
Perhaps it's because of laziness or a love of improvised sex, and many husbands refuse to take a shower before sex. What makes wives even more headache is that some husbands even refuse to wear condoms because they don't like 'scratching their boots'. However, unsafe sex has brought a variety of troubles to women, including gynecological diseases, miscarriages, and so on. Therefore, the most unbearable thing for a wife is the husband who opposes her on bathing and condom issues.
3、 Every time I fall asleep after work
"If you fall asleep after sex because you're exhausted, no wife would think this way: 'He just uses me as a tool for venting his libido, he doesn't love me at all.'" Dr. Judy, a well-known American therapist, also pointed out that during sexual intercourse, the lower pituitary gland of the brain secretes oxytocin, which makes people feel warm and want to hug. Wives are more likely to produce this hormone than husbands. Therefore, after sex, the wife will be more eager to hug and caress.
4、 Always making unreasonable sexual demands
Regardless of whether she is exhausted or physically unwell, a husband who only asks for sex can only make his wife feel disgusted and feel that you don't care about her at all, but only about their own desires. Sex is a matter of mutual consent. Once forced, it suddenly feels dull and tasteless.
Sex requires innovation, creativity, and adding more fun and fresh elements to achieve a happy and perfect state. However, this must be carried out on the premise that both sides are willing and actively participate in each other, otherwise any means and tricks will lose their significance.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
