Why do men easily change their minds? Why do extramarital affairs or third parties occur? Women curse "Chen Shimei". But I don't know that scolding "Chen Shimei" can't return his heart
It is the nature of all human beings to enjoy the new and dislike the old. It is precisely because of the old and new that new movies, new cultures, new products, new machines, new countries, new systems, new history, new worlds... that the wheels of the times roll forward. Since it is human nature to enjoy the new and dislike the old, and society is developing rapidly, as a woman, how can we not be eliminated by the times, and how can we make our husband remain unchanged?
Article 1: To strengthen one's own qualities, enhance one's cultural cultivation, and keep up with the pace of the times.
So you can keep up with your husband or boyfriend. In modern society, there have been significant changes in men's values and family values. A foolish, obedient, and ignorant girl cannot hold a strong man's heart. From ancient times to the present, I have never heard of a famous dignified and elegant lady who can be favored by men. However, those who make men want to be immortal and die, such as Bao Si, Cixi, Daji, Wu Meiniang, Li Shishi, Su Xiaoxiao, Sai Jinhua, etc., are all intelligent, witty, proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy, and painting, and talented.
In many opinion polls, it has been found that what men prefer and need more are smart, trendy, and intelligent partners. In modern society, taking care of children to cook, wash clothes is no longer a wife's job, but has long been replaced by nannies, kindergartens, high-end restaurants, and restaurants.
Article 2: Be fully confident.
Men like confident women. Confidence can make a mediocre face shine. To cultivate and protect one's charm. Charm does not come from face, I oppose using knives and guns on my own face. I think I will never go for plastic surgery. Nature and reality are the most beautiful. We just want to carefully protect ourselves. Delayed aging can be achieved. My sister called me from France and told me she wanted to go for a plastic surgery. I immediately told her firmly, "If you go for a plastic surgery, I don't like you anymore. I like the way you look. Your face doesn't matter at all
Article 3: Don't love yourself so much that you lose yourself.
This type of woman is most likely to be abandoned by men. They give the most and lose the most. If you give everything you have as a gift to the other party, they will think it's too easy and will put it aside without any pity. I have many male friends who have divorced or have had bad relationships with third parties, and their wives are blameless. I asked them why? They said they didn't know either. After thinking for a long time, they replied to me, 'Maybe I didn't come after them!'!
Article 4: Give the other party some freedom and enough space.
It is very important for both spouses to maintain a certain distance. If you suffocate a man, he will dislike you. Keep the other person fresh with you. If he stays with you all day long, one day he will feel dull and tasteless. Let him do his own thing, and being with you eight hours away or at night is enough.