In their married life, many people feel that their men do not love themselves as much as they imagine. For no apparent reason, they resorted to arguments, crying, and even divorce to resolve this conflict.
In fact, the situation where married men no longer take care of women as much as before is not always the same. Some men are born as emotional killers, and we won't talk about this for now. But sometimes, it's just a good man who does the same after marriage. What is this for? The reason is actually due to some changes in women themselves.
1. No more praise
Women before marriage often praise a man for his hospitality. But after marriage, women take men's hospitality for granted, so there is no praise from the past.
But what we need to say is, whether before or after marriage, if you feel his benefits, then you can always praise him. Women love to hear sweet words, and men also need them. Even if he is not tall, let him feel like he is "tall and on par".
2. No longer slender
It's not that marriage is just a dividing line of a woman's figure, allowing them to indulge in binge drinking and eating freely after marriage, no longer sticking to their previous lean figure.
All husbands hope that their wife is a curvaceous woman. If you are overweight, you must take immediate action to eliminate those unwelcome fats on your body. Otherwise, you may no longer be popular as a whole.
The older you get married, the more you need to take care of your body, package yourself, and maintain your charm forever.
3. No longer running a household
Before getting married, women often tidy up their homes in order to show men their beauty. But after marriage, perhaps due to relaxing oneself, the family suddenly becomes chaotic and chaotic.
The love nest of the two should be neat and tidy, with orderly arrangement of items throughout the home, spotless and spotless, and the composition of the objects should have a certain cultural and artistic beauty connotation. With these two points in mind, men like to go home and bring friends over, as well as talk about their loved ones in front of others, because you have exposed their face, and because of you, they have face.
4. No more cooking
This should be the most familiar point for us, so when a woman cooks before marriage, revealing her excellent cooking skills often makes men more interested in you.
But after marriage, if you want to always hold onto the other person's heart, you must still hold onto their stomach. No matter what you do, as long as you put your heart into it, the other party will surely enjoy your delicacies and love with gratitude. But you can't just cook that dish or soup every day. No man likes to eat "regular meals" all year round, and you also need to put in some effort in culinary art. When he realizes that he may not be able to have a satisfactory dinner without you, he will follow you for the rest of his life.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)