Post Date November, 16 2024
The biggest dilemma in sexual life is that the duration of sexual intercourse is too short, which leads to conflicts between the couple. They all say that if we don't get along in bed, we won't get along. What should we do? Increase sexual activity time? Increase the intensity of sexual activity? Actually, sexual intercourse is not that complicated, take a look at these four knowledge points.
To get rid of the dilemma of sexual life, the following should be done
1. Emotional contact is not necessarily sexual behavior.
How to improve the quality of sexual life? Men generally believe that sexual contact must include sexual intercourse, which is wrong. Sexual activity involves many aspects, and it may not always be accompanied by the excitement of sexual intercourse. Women are most aware of the fact that as long as they have a certain sense of care, it is enough. That is to say, when your wife takes the initiative to hug you, she doesn't necessarily require you to "take it seriously", perhaps she just wants to find a warm feeling.
2. There is no standard for the frequency of sexual activity.
That is to say, the position of sexual life should be placed in a proper position. For some couples, having sex once a month is more effective and both parties are satisfied. And some people may have sex five times a week to feel satisfied. This is an individual difference and cannot be forced to be uniform. As long as both parties are honest and express their feelings clearly, they will coordinate and avoid mutual suspicion, otherwise a vicious cycle will form. Many men measure their sexual ability by 'frequency'. In fact, the quality of sexual life is more important. Breaking this superstition will eliminate anxiety.
3. Play some romantic tricks.
When couples are alone, they can light candles for dinner; Or they can cover their legs with blankets, watch the moon on the balcony, chat, and relive their first love... Nowadays, many couples are still in the trend of a "lover's sex" method, which is to occasionally go to a hotel for the night. Enjoying sexual life in a casual way often leads to a particularly relaxed mood, which can not only alleviate stress but also enhance intimacy between couples. There is no fixed equation for love, and so is sexual life. Please remember that creation is inherently joyful. Another point is that there is no best way in the world, only the one that suits you.
4. Carry out in a planned manner.
Sexual activity should also be planned, only in this way can there be tacit cooperation between couples. In fact, setting up a "sexual life plan" between the two is also a very emotional enjoyment. For example, a gentleman complained, "My wife usually likes to have sex after finishing household chores and waiting for the children to fall asleep, and I just can't get up my spirits at this time." As a result, "sex" is not at the right time and we don't like each other and sleep. It can be seen that making a "plan" is very important.
