I always feel that the days after marriage are terrible. We are afraid that our future decades will lose interest in each other and that each other will no longer love us
Is marriage really like the tomb of love in "Besieged City"? No, we can see from our family philosophy that skilled marriage is happy and scientific, so should we also learn how to make our marriage happy and happy because of our skills?
Appropriate separation
Don't think that being tired of being together all day is our best way to love. It's not true. Sometimes, we can promote each other's love if we leave properly.
Leave each other for a period of time, deliberately cultivate the yearning of both parties for their loved ones, and then get together happily. At this time, it can make the emotional heat of the couple's yearning interweave into a happy reunion carnival, and push the calm feelings of the couple to a new peak.
Relive the dream of love
The honeymoon at the time of marriage is the most emotional period for the couple. At that time, the two people put aside all the troubles and completely entered the world of love over honey to enjoy the "Garden of Eden".
After marriage, if you can take advantage of holidays and arrange different "honeymoons" every year, such as traveling to a different place, recreating the love world between the two people, and revisiting the beautiful dreams of the past, you will be able to set off waves of love and make the relationship between husband and wife stronger.
Consolidate love
Marriage anniversary, each other's birthday, love anniversary and so on are important dates in the history of love between husband and wife. At that time, take appropriate forms to commemorate, so that both parties feel that the other party has deep love for themselves, which plays a great role in consolidating the relationship between husband and wife.
Gentle humor
Some men and women, when dating each other before marriage, always try to please each other, but after marriage, they no longer care about each other's feelings about themselves.
This practice will hurt the feelings of the couple. Therefore, after marriage, female comrades should be as gentle and gentle as ever and care for their husbands; Male comrades, on the other hand, should carefully appreciate their wife's inner feelings. They should not only take care of her everywhere, but also learn some skills to please her, such as being a high ginseng for her to buy clothes, helping her to make beauty plans, and having a little humor from time to time.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)