Some people say that it is common for couples to have small fights and disturbances, and there is no need to take them too seriously. Some people even believe that hitting is like cursing or loving, while making noise is like being married. We cannot say that there is anything wrong with these views, but it is not normal for couples to constantly argue.
If couples always argue, we should calm down and think carefully about what's wrong with each other.
The lack of trust between each other
Nowadays, there are more and more wealthy couples, and a moderately prosperous life has gradually penetrated into the lives of ordinary people. However, with their pockets bulging, men do not like to go home. And the reason why men don't go home is always because they are too busy with work, and often not going home will naturally cause suspicion and suspicion among women.
As soon as men return home, they ask a series of questions that men cannot answer: Whose unfamiliar number is on their phone? Who sent this juicy message? How can there be long hair on a suit? How can you smell perfume? If a man can't answer, hehe! Women call men good-looking!>> Learn the Four Great Techniques to Ensure the Endless Love between Couples
Disagreements over children
Some couples work hard outside for their careers, but leave their children with their parents or husbands. Which parent doesn't want their child around? Besides, there's only one child now? So, children became a topic of conversation between couples, but they were also the trigger for arguments.
Women often like to complain, and when talking about children, they often complain that their husbands are useless and cannot buy a house outside early to bring the children back to them. Of course, men cannot tolerate such complaints, so they easily start arguing.
Personality incompatibility, water and fire incompatibility
There are more couples with incompatible personalities who argue, so it is necessary to fall in love before marriage. If it is discovered that each other's personalities do not match, breaking up early during love is not as painful as divorce after marriage. The marriage between couples with incompatible personalities is more turbulent than the first three marriages, and the divorce demography is higher than the first three marriages.
It is best to avoid arguments between couples. A harmonious marital relationship is a prerequisite and key to a happy marriage. Wishing all netizens a happy marriage! reach old age!
The disharmonious mother-in-law daughter-in-law relationship
If a woman encounters a "foolish and filial" husband, this can be a great sorrow for women. Clearly, it was her mother-in-law who deliberately made things difficult for her daughter-in-law. A woman who had suffered a lot of grievances wanted her husband to avenge her wrongs or comfort her behind her back, but unexpectedly, she was scolded by her husband for not following the rules and not understanding filial piety.
Today's daughter-in-law is no more submissive than the daughter-in-law in the old society. Of course, they cannot tolerate such bullying. When their patience reaches a certain limit and they can no longer tolerate the "foolish filial piety" behavior of their husband leaning towards their mother-in-law, it is the moment when war breaks out.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)