Post Date December, 03 2023
The ideal marriage is happy and sweet, but few couples can truly have this happiness, and most are in a "fair" state. A 'fair' marriage can only temporarily maintain a certain balance, and as long as the balance is broken, cracks will appear. In fact, the road to happiness is long and bumpy, and even if you get married, you may not necessarily be able to reach it. Among them, there are four crucial obstacles that need to be overcome in order to further progress towards happiness.
The first obstacle: work
For urban white-collar workers, work is a stressful aspect of life that cannot be discarded or easily handled. Many people bring their work or work emotions home, which is undoubtedly a significant blow to marriage. Facing the pressure of work and working hard, one often vent their dissatisfaction towards their partner, which can easily lead to conflicts and affect their relationship. So, couples should try to avoid conflicts between work and marriage and family, which can reduce the occurrence of conflicts.
The second obstacle: Irregular sexual activity
The enormous pressure of life makes people exhausted, and sexual life between couples has become a luxury. Long periods of asexuality make it difficult for two people to distance themselves from each other, and their sexual desires cannot be reasonably expressed, until they turn into depression and depression. In this way, not only are emotions indifferent, but even temperament will change. Couples should arrange their sexual life reasonably, and time can always be squeezed out, let alone sex is a happy thing. Even if we spend a weekend loving each other, it will enhance our relationship.
The third obstacle: Your partner is too tough
In marriage, there will always be a strong partner, and if this strength overwhelms the other party, it is a burden and the biggest curse. Since couples choose to live together, they should be tolerant, tolerant, understanding, and understanding towards each other. There is no need to use tough means to maintain one's position, nor should you be so subservient as "slaves". You are equal. Only on an equal footing can one enjoy happiness.
Fourth obstacle: lack of communication
Communication is a way of communication that everyone cannot but lacks, and so is couples. Even if you have a deep connection, in some cases, it is necessary to communicate reasonably in order to accurately express your own thoughts and understand the feelings of the other party. Lack of communication can lead to increasingly distant hearts and emotions, even mutual suspicion and distrust. So, regular communication can keep your relationship in a constant state, and even if conflicts arise, they can be resolved effectively. It can be said that happiness breeds and grows through communication.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
