Marriage is the sublimation of love, while lovelorn love is the tragedy of love. For lovelorn women, love is a bowl of poison, and they have to drink it, but they also have to taste the bitter fruit and die. Most people can calmly accept this fact after falling in love, but there are also some people who cannot withstand the impact of falling in love. Generally speaking, the emotional psychology of a lovelorn woman can be divided into the following categories. Take a seat according to the number and see what kind of lovelorn woman you belong to?
The first type: rational and calm. This situation belongs to the emotional psychology of the optimist school. You can persuade yourself to change your self perception. You know that a relationship that will break up is not called love, so you can correctly view the matter of lovelorn love, so you appear to be rational. But that doesn't mean you won't feel sad about it. Losing someone you once desperately loved will definitely hurt if your heart suddenly empties. It's just that your psychological quality is better, your ability to withstand pressure is stronger, and your self suggestion is affecting you. Finally, your heart will return to peace. Yes, the old won't go, the new won't come, the wrong love won't leave, how can true love meet you? There's nothing wrong with falling in love, the next man will be better!
The second kind: Sadness can be controlled. This type of person is more sentimental and always feels that falling in love is a major event, and when they are free, they always think about it. This is mostly because they haven't figured it out yet. Why are they clearly trying so hard to love or falling short? So they always show their true feelings in front of their friends, or hide and cry alone, even though they are sad, they can still control it because they won't let their emotions affect their work. "When she becomes busy, she can put the matter of heartbreak behind her mind, but when she is free, her heart will ache again. Therefore, it is recommended to find her own interest and walk out of the shadow of heartbreak by diverting her attention.".
The third kind: Suffering and unable to extricate oneself. Every brokenhearted person who changes from warm love to apathetic loneliness will have some maladjustment, but some people will allow this kind of uncomfortable psychology caused by maladjustment to occur a generalized phenomenon. "They feel like the world is empty after being lovelorn, and they don't have any intention to do anything else. The whole person is trapped in the vortex of lovelorn love, unable to extricate themselves. Some people start staying at home all day and all night, some people start getting drunk in the hot dance at the bar D, some people start crying and feeling decadent, some people... women who can't extricate themselves, wake up quickly. You should be happy to lose a man who doesn't love you,", Why do you want to cause harm to yourself? It's necessary to vent your emotions, but pay attention to using the right methods. You can either travel for relaxation or talk to your good friends. It won't take long before you realize that falling in love is just a small matter!
Fourth: Crazy and psychopathic. There is nothing strange in the world, so don't think that psychopathy is impossible. In fact, many people are psychologically distorted due to falling in love. These women take brokenhearted relationships too seriously, and they willingly do things that people cannot imagine. Either there is a sense of revenge to hurt your boyfriend, or there is a sense of inferiority to hurt yourself. Regardless, the final outcome is unimaginable. It is recommended that lovelorn women with this type of emotional psychology go to a psychologist to get rid of the pain of lovelorn relationships as soon as possible and restore their psychology to a healthy state.
"Broken love does not mean failure, but rather allows you to bid farewell to the wrong love. If the impact of broken love is too great, you may as well use external help to get out of the shadow of broken love, but the most important thing is to rely on yourself to adjust your psychology, thereby achieving psychological balance, and continuing to be a happy self.".