Post Date December, 02 2023
Men always like the new and dislike the old. In the early stages of love, they are sweet and romantic, but after a long time, there will be significant changes. They even lazily ignore you, and in the end, they have to break up. The reasons for breaking up are both ridiculous and annoying. Let's see how men find excuses to break up.
Firstly, I am unable to provide you with more happiness. I hope you can find a better man than me!
Saying this sentence may not be entirely in language, it will be expressed to you through actions and emotions, and it will give you a psychological acceptance process. Forgive me for being blunt, in the end, he is just waiting for a woman to speak up. He constantly thinks that you are considering, and on the grounds of loving you but not being able to give you enough happiness, he gradually breaks up on the road.
No matter how beautiful the words are, the ultimate goal is to break up with you, and the fundamental reason is still not loving you anymore. So why did they make the simple word 'breakup' so complicated? They have at least two psychological states. On the one hand, they are afraid that women will entangle themselves and make them feel inferior, so they play a tragic card in front of women in the name of love; On the other hand, it is to give women a step, as a joke online says: if possible, it is best to leave the word 'breakup' to the girl you once loved to say.
In life, there are indeed those who break up with women due to such a mentality, but it is really rare, and whether they really think this way can be seen from their actions and past personalities. If women were to be a little more sober on this point, they would have their own feelings.
Secondly, my family doesn't agree with me being with you, I don't want to delay your youth like this!
On the issue of breaking up, many men will, for the sake of face, even if they kill them, refuse to admit that their willingness to break up is because they no longer love you. So he would naturally pull out his parents and use their authority to oppose and his filial piety as an excuse to launch sugarcoating and entanglement to comfort the woman. The more cunning a man is, the more he can fully perform this part. He can "reveal" such information to you several months in advance and show entanglement, allowing women to actively ask him why, and then pushing the boat with the tide to make women believe it... However, with all due respect, a considerable number of men actually have their abacus set n times in their hearts.
With such an analysis, I have no intention of worsening the ugliness of men's hearts. However, in real life, there are indeed many examples and people like this, which make women look back in the pain of sorrow even after parting hands. It is really despicable and shameless.
Thirdly, please give me two years. In these two years, I will work hard alone, and when I am ready, I will definitely come back and marry you!
Some men, when breaking up, make promises to women, leaving behind heroic words that make them moved. At the same time, they have to accept their promise to "travel far away for love". However, the ultimate solution to the breakup is still time and distance... On this issue, men have already figured it out. They understand better than anyone that time and distance will make everything change, and they don't have to break up with women on their own, Time and distance will allow women to make their own choices. Anyway, as long as two people are not together, I am an independent and free person. You have no idea what I will do and which woman I will continue to be with.
To be honest, I have to admire this kind of man's "wisdom". I just want to share these secrets here. I don't know how many such "excellent men" would hate me to the bone.
Fourthly, I'm for your own good. There are many things I can't tell you, so let's break up!
Compared to the above three types, this last type of man is even more skilled at playing. He doesn't tell you anything and just plays deep with you. And deep men are often the most genuine pain in women's hearts. He will put all his past and promises in front of you in one sentence: "Dear, I am for your good. There are many things I cannot tell you now, but you will definitely understand in the future. Let's break up
What a profound and masculine statement! Women are intoxicated by it, but the sky is always blue. It should be noted that when women understand in the future, this man will already be holding other women in his arms. At that time, if they don't understand, they must understand. Understanding is also unclear. After all, when they broke up with you, they didn't love you anymore. Women were just fooled by men for a while.
Reminder: When a man doesn't love you, he will find a bunch of excuses to break up. Don't be so naive, this may be something he has planned for a long time.
(Intern Editor: Zhao Minqing)
