Post Date December, 02 2023
Every person who enters a marriage hopes that their marriage can be happy and long-lasting. But this is not simple, it requires both spouses to master some ways of getting along with each other. In a long married life, there are always some problems that need to be solved by the couple together, mutual tolerance, so as not to let their marriage wither and wither.
Imagine having guests at home
People tend to have a much better attitude towards strangers than towards their families. Similarly, married men and women often treat their partners too casually, even harshly. Some couples will blame each other by pulling their throats as long as they are alone. When encountering this situation, experts suggest inviting a friend to stay at home for a period of time, or imagining having guests at home. Before long, the couple will become as respectful as each other. This is because imagining a guest living at home greatly enhances a partner's ability to control their emotions.
Try not to blame the other party
When couples get along, as their familiarity increases, they become more and more casual and stop praising each other as often as before. Correspondingly, there are more and more criticisms. No one can tolerate a marriage relationship where criticism outweighs appreciation. So both spouses should keep their mouths shut, and ideally, criticize each other at most once a day.
Pay attention to the principle of speaking
When two people argue, women usually chatter incessantly, and the speed and volume of speech often make men unbearable. That's why many men are afraid of getting into endless arguments. So turn down the volume, slow down your speaking speed, and try to express yourself in three sentences. This not only avoids arguments, but also improves communication efficiency.
Do some heartwarming little things
Usually, couples do not crave much gift or care from each other. Just need the other party to be able to do some heartwarming little things from time to time. Often praising the other person, helping them wash dishes, washing their feet... Small things often warm their hearts the most.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
