Post Date December, 02 2023
I believe everyone will definitely listen to those who get married saying that marriage is the tomb of love, without freedom. As Mr. Qian Zhongshu metaphorically put it, marriage is like a siege, where people inside the city want to go out, while those outside the city want to come in. However, extramarital affairs are not like this, as those who engage in extramarital affairs often span across the city. To put it plainly, it means eating from the bowl and looking at the pot.
So, why do people have extramarital affairs? What do they think? Today, the editor will take you to see what people who engage in extramarital affairs think.
Compensation
People who engage in extramarital affairs out of this mentality are either separated from each other, feeling lonely and unbearable, or having one partner with a physical defect, and the other partner is not a virgin. Therefore, they will actively seek a third party or be willing to accept compensation from a third party, thus forming an extramarital relationship. In fact, sexual life is not the entire content of married life. As long as couples strengthen their connections, communicate emotionally, and miss each other in their hearts, life will still be fulfilling, and there is no need to compensate.
Greedy for money
There are many "mistresses" and "little white faces" nowadays, why? Most of these people are gluttonous, lazy, and want to get something for nothing. Therefore, regardless of their dignity and personality, they voluntarily commit themselves to the other party in exchange for a few copper coins, forming an extramarital relationship. In fact, personality is priceless, and money is an external thing. More is more useful, and less is less spent. Why exchange priceless treasure for a few copper coins?
Lack of affection
The phrase 'lovers eventually get married' may be beautiful, but it is so difficult to implement. In real life, many lovers cannot get together due to various factors, either they have their own families or one party is still waiting hard. When one party finds life difficult or their relationship is not harmonious, the other party feels that they still owe each other love, so they actively throw themselves into the arms of their old lover, and the old love revives, resulting in extramarital love.
Lustful lust
Many people may engage in extramarital affairs simply because they desire the other person's appearance, whether it's the beauty of a woman or the physique of a man. They will actively show their love, leading to extramarital affairs. In fact, beauty in appearance naturally disappears with age, and only spiritual beauty is eternal, like wine, which becomes more mellow over time. Therefore, the most important thing is to be good at discovering the shining points of your spouse.
No matter what psychological or purpose it is, extramarital love is not acceptable, and if it is not handled properly, it will cause family breakdown, and the gains outweigh the losses.
