Post Date December, 02 2023
When many couples complain that their marital life is boring and that the other person is too "unsuitable" for them to feel happy at all, truly happy couples only look at each other and smile silently. Why are you always complaining about others without communicating with your loved ones or changing your own flaws? Marriage is originally a matter of two people, and when you complain, he/she must also be complaining about you, resulting in a unhappy separation. If both spouses can follow the following four formulas, you will no longer have complaints.
Formula 1: Intimate
A couple is necessarily the most intimate couple. Intimacy includes the relationship between both parties, as well as coordination and thoughtful emotions. It has a consistent passion, as well as mutual differences. It is certain that since you become a husband and wife, your emotions and lives are compatible with each other. Do not separate from each other, nor do you need to separate from each other. To reach this level, your marriage will definitely be flawless.
Formula 2: Shared Happiness
The happiness in marriage is not one-sided, but something shared by each other. Enjoy the achievements of each other's work, enjoy the emotions and warmth of each other's dedication, and enjoy each other's most sincere body. This is something unique to couples, and no other emotion can be joyful.
Formula 3: Tolerance and Understanding
Contradictions permeate every corner of life, and even intimate couples cannot escape the law of contradiction. When a certain point in your spouse conflicts with you, or your opinions and actions on certain things are different, the conflict will come unsolicited, adding a lot of troubles to the marriage.
At this moment, tolerance and understanding are the best medicine. Since you choose to grow old together with the other party, you must be prepared to accept their mistakes; Since you can join hands in entering the palace of marriage, you must take measures to eliminate your own edges and corners; Since you are already together and see each other as an indispensable element in life, you must understand the importance of 'loving someone'.
In the face of conflicts, what couples need to do is: discover their strengths and ignore their weaknesses; Correct one's own shortcomings and maximize one's advantages; Communicate frequently to achieve a tacit understanding and keep all drawbacks and shortcomings out of the door.
Formula 4: Change Innovation
Even if there is no crisis in a plain marriage, there will still be a crisis. Many people feel that the other party has changed after marriage, but in reality, no one has changed. They just face their loved ones and live in a fixed way, both of whom are bored and tired of each other. At this moment, what couples need is change and innovation.
Women spend a little effort to dress themselves, so that fresh elements fill the whole family; Men should learn to be romantic and surprise their loved ones. Remember, marriage is not the tomb of love, the true tomb is your heart that does not strive for progress or change.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
