Post Date December, 03 2023
There are more or less minor conflicts between lovers, and even the most loving couple can have quarrels. If there should be a quarrel, what should we do? How can we quickly quell her anger and make the big things smaller and the small things smaller? Today, I will teach you five simple and practical methods.
The first method: hard recognition method
Trying to admit your mistake is the easiest way. You can achieve your goal by trying to admit your mistakes. Whether right or wrong, admit your mistake first, and then analyze and explain when her anger subsides. This is also a commonly used method. The key point of this method is to analyze after the event. It is also not possible to admit mistakes without saying so. After the event, it is important to only analyze the process, not say right or wrong, and leave the other person face.
The second method: adding oil to the fire
When the other party is angry, provoke the other party again, make her lose her mind, and then change the topic. And said that these are not things, you don't care. As long as I love you. This method is suitable for dealing with small issues and conflicts, as admitting mistakes in small matters may seem too weak. So as long as love is enough, what else is right or wrong?
The third method: Silence to the law
If things develop to an incurable rhythm, they should be taken seriously, first silent, then thinking in silence. Clarify your own right and wrong, actively admit your own mistakes, and point out the other party's problems. This method mainly lies in the timing of silence. When and how long to be silent. When the other party is angry, keep silent first, and discuss when the other party is at a low ebb. After all, it still requires communication to solve the problem.
The fourth method: avoiding its sharp edges
Many times, we should not care about those details. Giving a gift, eating together, and recalling the good old times together are all things that can evoke love. We don't need to expand the problem, as long as we keep the original love as it should be, and let it continue, just talk about love. So giving her a favorite gift, eating her favorite dinner together, or evoking the romance of deep love together can all bring her back.
The fifth method: the overbearing CEO method
We can use this method if our mistakes disappoint her. As long as a domineering CEO hugs her and then says something disgusting to her, even immediately pouncing and giving her a wild kiss can be very effective. "At least it can calm the other party down and not stick to the right and wrong anymore, so we can do it after calming the other party down and not discuss the present anymore. Instead, we should discuss more about the future and make the other party feel relaxed.".
In fact, when falling in love, it's best not to try to win over the other person when they feel disappointed, as this will keep them in a passive situation. The best way is to pay attention to both parties' own space during communication, and not mix their space too much. As long as neither side interferes too much with each other, it is possible to maintain a healthy love life, which can quickly settle disputes. First, recognize the hearts and minds of both parties in your own mind, so that you can tolerate and love each other. Don't touch on unnecessary trivial things in life, and don't let life become a drag on love.
