Post Date December, 03 2023
Marriage is mixed with all kinds of trivialities and pressures, which also adds more problems to the happy marriage life. In daily marriage, we often encounter the following five problems, which are also the five problems that intensify the conflict between husband and wife. Next, let's take a look at all the marital problems, which can easily aggravate the conflict between husband and wife.
1. Family expenses
Family expenses are the main problem of maintaining a family's normal operation. In the traditional Chinese concept, it is the husband who earns money to support the family. Therefore, when family expenses are tight, many housewives habitually blame their husbands for the root cause of family economy, which leads to the contradiction between husband and wife. When the family encounters money problems, the husband and wife often quarrel. When the wife is in a bad mood, she doesn't care about her husband's feelings at all. She says a lot of ugly words and takes out all her anger on her husband.
But the family is maintained by two people. Although men need to support their families, they still need to work together. Therefore, when the family is in financial difficulties, it is not the time to blame anyone, but the time to discuss how to solve the problem together. The wife can earn less, but can't expect the husband to bear the family expenses alone. As long as the husband and wife work together, they will always get through the difficulties.
2. Children's education
Nowadays, the problem of children's education is a headache for most parents. Both husband and wife have different educational ideas and methods, which leads to many differences. If you encounter children who go their own way, you will inevitably have different educational results. Most parents hope that their children can become twins and have high hopes. When meeting children who hate iron but don't become steel, impatient parents will inevitably lose their temper, while the other party's eagerness to protect the baby will easily lead to the emergence of marital conflicts. The issue of education has often become the basic topic of marital disputes.
Parents always like to impose their own will on their children, and always like to catch up with the principles designed by parents. When children fail to meet their parents' expectations, they will fight and scold again. At this time, they will always end up with a quarrel between husband and wife.
3. Bad living habits
There are essential differences between men and women in life habits. Men always have a strong tolerance for the different life habits of women and themselves, and generally do not deliberately change the other's life habits. But women are different. They can't tolerate their men having any bad habits. For example, people who like to drink and socialize, such as smoking at home, throwing dirty clothes and smelly socks at random, and so on, will inevitably become the long-term cause of the quarrel between husband and wife.
The wife always thinks that her husband should share the housework with her when he comes home, and should live in full accordance with her life habits or the laws of her will. This is what many men are not easy to do. Men always think that home is a place where they can be free, a place to rest, and a place where they can be free. Therefore, in the face of women's efforts to transform men into new good men, the vast majority of men do not want to be completely transformed by women from the bottom of their hearts. Therefore, quarrels are inevitable.
4. The problem of mutual loyalty
For couples, especially young couples, they always suspect each other of having an affair and other problems, resulting in disputes. Facing a wife with a cheerful and lively personality, or a wife who likes to play with boys, it is easy to make her husband jealous. Similarly, the same is true in the face of a playful husband. When he comes home late at night all the year round, he often goes to the place where his wife is worried, and often plays games that make his wife worried, which always makes his wife feel worried and unhappy. Sometimes it is only a step from persuasion to quarrel.
5. Catch a bad hobby
Between husband and wife, if one of them has bad habits, such as gambling, drug abuse and other problems, it will easily lead to the intensification of marital conflicts. Most of the quarrels between husband and wife in many families are caused by one party's addiction to gambling or repeated smoking. Whoever sees the other party turn a good family into a destitute one, the quarrels are certain. Some families eventually break up and split up.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
