I have a girl I like, but I hesitate to confess because of their ambiguous attitude. In the end, I missed the opportunity and only learned a long time later that the other party had given me a hint. It's just because I was too ignorant and didn't understand? I'm afraid there are many such regrets.
So, how can we understand a girl's thoughts?
1. If you date her
A 23 year old salesperson said, "I would say to him, 'It's so happy to be a girl who can be your girlfriend.'" Another 25 year old salesperson said, "To ensure that the other person understands my thoughts, I would say something very explicit, such as' I want to date someone like you '
Another 28 year old researcher shared, 'I will send him a suggestive text message saying,' If I could date you, it would be great. 'This will create an atmosphere where you confess and I agree.'
2. The atmosphere is very important
A 25-year-old salesperson said, 'Creating a space for two people and creating an atmosphere where you are willing to interact with them.' Another 23-year-old salesperson also believed, 'Creating a world for two is a good way.'
3. Talk to her about confessions
A 25 year old salesperson suggested, "Tell him something like 'I heard that someone has been confessed, and I really want to be confessed.'" Another 32 year old technician said, "You can tell him that you really want to have a boyfriend and have been waiting for someone to take care of you
Another clothing manufacturer shared their experience and said, "Because I don't want to confess myself, I directly ask the other party how they perceive me and guide the topic to let them confess
4. Body language is very effective
A 28-year-old salesperson replied, "Make some subtle physical contact and then stare at him, it will soon take effect." Another 31-year-old salesperson also said, "Stare at him with a smile on his face, and if the other person also has a good impression of him, he will respond
A 27-year-old human resources administrator also said, "You can try to hold the other person's hand, you must win!" There are many boys who are very dull and cannot use their eyes and body language well. When facing such a boy, girls may as well take the initiative to attack.
5. Clarify the relationship
A 27-year-old media official said, 'You might as well ask him if he wants a girlfriend.' Another 30-year-old education department worker added, 'Let the other person know that you don't have a boyfriend, don't refuse invitations, and spend more time traveling and dining together.'