It's easy to get married, just a marriage certificate. But if it is like keeping a happy marriage for a long time, it is not such a simple thing to talk about. There are many disharmonies in marriage that need to be overcome. For example, the harmony of sexual life, the loyalty of two people and honesty all affect the happiness of marriage. So what is the secret of a happy marriage?
1. Consistent loyalty to the other half
Loyalty is the most basic thing that marriage can maintain. Just like you start a company, your partner always plays tricks secretly. You can't understand what the other party is thinking. Will you continue to cooperate with him? In the same way, if you lose loyalty in marriage, you can say that you are not far from collapse. What should be observed is not only the punctuality of dating at ordinary times, but also the vow made at the time of marriage to "live and die in harmony with your son".
2. Sharing of family life
Sharing in marriage is understanding for the other half, and speaking directly is also your responsibility. After all, it is impossible for marriage to continue without either party. It is the sincerity of marriage to do our best in everything, big or small. Don't think you can be a shopkeeper if you earn more money, but housework, work, finance, childcare and other things can be done together. You can do less, but you can never do nothing.
3. Be frank with each other
The frank treatment between husband and wife is to ask you not to keep your dissatisfaction with each other in your heart. After a long time, the marriage will collapse more quickly when it breaks out. It's better to tell the other person the truth tactfully. Be honest with each other and communicate with each other can reduce your friction with each other and deepen your understanding of your partner's needs
4. Active communication
It is inevitable to encounter some unhappy things in marriage life, and emotional ups and downs are also inevitable. You can communicate with each other in time when you encounter bottlenecks. Communication can resolve this emotional crisis very well, and you can take advantage of the situation to understand the other's inner world.
5. Perfect sex life
Not everyone has a thorough understanding of the definition of perfect sex life. Perfect sex life is not about how good your sex experience is, but about the integration of body and mind, not only the physical climax, but also the spiritual fit. This is based on mutual communication and understanding. It's not just psychological. Therefore, couples should pay more attention to spiritual communication in their sexual life, rather than blindly climaxing.
The editor reminds everyone:
After marriage, two people should accept each other's family, including relatives and friends. The love for each other's family will also be felt, which is also very beneficial to the promotion of your emotions. This is your love for your family. The mutual trust and sincerity between husband and wife will keep your husband and wife feeling sweet forever.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)