Post Date December, 03 2023
Immature men are everywhere and to varying degrees, but some concealment efforts are really impressive. Women's clich é s of "opening up before marriage" are not teaching you to be a "beautiful and bad woman" who hovers between men, just reminding you not to be blurred by love. Because what you really need to face is the real life for most of your life in the future. At the beginning of a relationship, don't rush to get involved. You should use women's sharp intuition and observation skills more.
Five aspects of men's maturity
Five aspects of men's maturity
The maturity of men can be seen from five aspects: relationship maturity, sexual maturity, dealing maturity, emotional maturity, and moral maturity.
The maturity of the relationship, including his relationships with family, friends, and colleagues. From his attitude towards handling these relationships, we can see his attitude towards gender relations. In love, both parties can maintain a consistent attitude towards each other's viewpoints, but once they enter the actual situation, any previously unseen differences will emerge and their tolerance towards each other will be relatively reduced. So at the beginning of a relationship, experts suggest not to put too many emotions into it. At this point, the most important thing is to participate more in his life. While on a romantic outing, don't forget to visit his house frequently. Marriage experts believe that family tradition and upbringing can most influence a person's mental maturity. You can observe the filial piety and respect of the younger generation towards their parents and elders in this family, the way siblings get along, the way they treat guests, and whether their interactions with outsiders are superficial or reciprocal.
In terms of sexual maturity, can he treat the opposite sex equally? Does he believe that women are accessories of men or treat the opposite sex with respect?
Also, does he have a sense of responsibility and justice in handling matters? Will he show an attitude of wanting to take advantage of others in small matters? Can he control his emotions? Can we avoid causing harm to others when interacting with them? Is it a pleasure to make fun of him, but when he becomes the target of ridicule, he immediately turns his back?
Immature but kind men can still be saved
After you have a certain understanding of his actions and personality, you must judge whether the maturity of this man is passing or failing? If you fail, are you eligible for a makeup exam or are you hopeless? Of course, if he has gone through numerous tests and performed well, at this stage you can already receive a certificate of completion from a marriage expert, and the next stage is a more challenging stage of managing a marriage.
As for how to deal with those men who fail to pass the make-up exam, it is also necessary to put in more effort - only kind men are eligible for the make-up exam.
When encountering a kind but immature man, as long as you have hope for him, as long as you are willing to pay patience and time for conditioning, you can still hope to have an ideal man.
Of course, the first requirement is that you must be a mature woman. Give full play to your maturity and serve as a model for him, giving him a standard for learning. You don't have to rush to correct him, choose a suitable time, let him taste the fruits of immaturity first, and then timely use your maturity to help him out.
If a man does one point and you praise three points, he will definitely get twice the result with half the effort. But don't try to achieve it overnight, because the reason why he became what he is today was not just a day's development. Very patient, very skilled, is the only way to regulate a man's maturity.
