Treat your wife
Say more "thank you" and "we": In marriage life, there are two words that need to be often spoken: "thank you", which represents gratitude, and "we", which brings us closer to each other. If you use these words more, you will feel more love in your heart. When you quarrel and complain, you can reduce your negative emotions.
Don't be hard on each other: we all know that a happy marriage is the foundation of the career of male friends. However, in the face of such and other temptations outside, many men's psychology has been affected, and finally the marriage has become fragmented. The longer a husband and wife spend together, the easier it is to be demanding and angry. The best way is to establish an agreement between the two people about the circumstances under which they should immediately stop arguing and try to adjust their emotions.
Treat the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
Learn to speak good words: to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, you need to be a careful man. You must prepare gifts for holidays or birthdays. Don't be greedy for work. You must give it to the elders in the name of your wife. The old people should be coaxed. If your wife is stingy, you should be more generous for her.
Know how to trust: You should trust your wife if you choose her. The most important thing is to know her. What happens should be thought of according to her temperament. A woman who married into a strange family alone only depends on you. So do your best to protect her. The old man is old and stubborn. If his wife is angry with the old man, you should not be angry with her.
Be brave to take responsibility: When something happens in your family, you should take responsibility at the first time, no matter who is wrong. After all, blood is thicker than water, and the old man will not be angry with you. But once you shirk the responsibility, it must be your daughter-in-law, who will complain more about a so-called outsider.
The most important thing is to understand: the so-called filial piety is the first, and the starting point is to consider more for the elderly. The wife must be coaxed, and as a daughter-in-law, she should also learn to understand the elderly, otherwise the elderly will have no reason to humble and please you all his life. In short, as a man, I have a great responsibility.