Post Date December, 03 2023
In China, due to the traditional attitude towards marriage, homosexuals often adopt various ways to avoid criticism. In order to cover up and escape family and social pressure, some of these men and women who admire the same sex in society have adopted the behavior of pairing and forming false marriages together (the man and woman form two families).
However, although false dual marriage can have a certain stress relieving effect, once this kind of marriage goes wrong, it will be difficult to solve. For example, the departure of one party, such as the maintenance obligations between spouses, marital property issues, elderly support issues, and inheritance issues, can make it difficult to maintain a false dual marriage once they encounter these issues.
Li Liang, Zhang Wei, Yan Mi, and Gao Nan, the four of whom are two gay couples, were introduced by friends. After meeting each other, the four of them made a bold decision: Li Liang and Yan Mi got married, and Zhang Wei and Gao Nan got married. In this way, the four of them can live a sweet and safe homosexual life under the umbrella of "legal marriage".
After the four of them got married, their initial lives were very sweet. Li Liang was Zhang Wei's "husband" and Yan Mi was Gao Nan's "wife". However, divorce between couples is a common occurrence, and their 'marriage' is no exception. Among this group of male homosexuals, Zhang Wei "cheated" and was with another person who looked even more masculine than Li Liang. The situation suddenly became turbulent, and Li Liang, who was injured, demanded that he no longer have any dealings with Zhang Wei. But the problem arose, and Zhang Wei's departure also involved Gao Nan, the other half of the legal marriage, who had children with Zhang Wei in order to "keep a queen" for Zhang Wei's family. If Gao Nan continues to maintain a legitimate marital relationship with Zhang Wei and refuses to separate from Yan Mi, she must demand a divorce from Yan Mi and Li Liang. However, Yan Mi said that her marriage is highly valued by her parents and she is unwilling to marry them.
The matter became complicated for a moment, and two out of four people must make a decision to divorce. The four of them were here for a moment, and each person's face became distressed. The "legal marriage" of homosexuality actually brought them a lot of trouble.
In the two groups of homosexuals mentioned above, we see the conflicting helplessness within homosexuals. They persevere for their emotions while compromising for the pressure of those around them. Gay and lesbian families seem to have become their perfect protective umbrella for a while, but little is known that behind this false double marriage, there will be larger and more complex problems.
So, in order to avoid the problems caused by false double marriage between homosexuals, homosexuals should not "take risks". Since they love, they should firmly love and not adopt seemingly hidden but actually foolish solutions due to the pressure around them.
