Extramarital love: the voice of a man who is sad to eat soft food
Yang, can you understand the loneliness of a man who is nearly 50 years old? I have experienced two failed relationships, and I admit that I have made mistakes, but I can't figure it out. Why did I pay so much, but it was always me who was injured in the end? "
In order to live a good life, I married a rich woman. I was born in an ordinary worker's family. I may have a deeper understanding of life difficulties than many peers. My father is a wheelbarrow worker in the factory. His monthly income is only tens of yuan, and there are many children in his family. So this family situation makes me have a stronger desire for a rich life than others.
At the age of marriage, some girls began to appear in my vision, beautiful and gentle. Although I like them all, I have made up my mind to find a girl with power and power so that my future life can be guaranteed.
As a result, I really met a rich woman who was very kind to me and fell in love with her. Despite the fierce opposition of my parents, my love affair with her began eagerly, and she even moved into my house soon to take care of my life and housework. At that time, many lunches were specially prepared by her at her home and sent to my unit. His consideration made me feel that I had found true love.
A year later, we got married as we wished. Her family paid a lot for the whole wedding. Even our new house was built with more than half of her family's money. All these prove that my vision is right. When we went out with our wife to the street, many familiar people envied us. When I hold her hand, I often think that marrying her is the wisest decision in my life.
A year later, we had lovely children. In order to subsidize our family's expenses, several friends and I decided to go to the south to do business. This is three years. After three years of hard work, there will be gains. The family has more savings and the living standard has improved a lot, but the loss is more terrible. When I returned to my hometown, some rumors about my wife made me unable to sleep soundly any more.
Wife has an affair?
I don't want to believe this is true, but when I asked her, her fierce refutation made me suspicious. I can see what she was trying to hide. When she saw that I was watching her closely, she simply left her child and went back to her family. As a result, I held my child in the lounge of her unit that night and saw her unfaithful to me.
In a fit of anger, I beat my wife and the man together, and finally slapped me in the face. Such an ending has left me no way out. The next morning, my wife and I went through the divorce procedure. On the way home, a man suddenly remembered his previous pride in his marriage. Now looking back, it has become my most unsuccessful choice.
After the divorce, another woman wanted to use her own money to help me restructure my career. The failure of a marriage was almost a fatal blow to me. On the surface, I was not affected, but in fact, I could not breathe through this cruel fact for several years. I no longer believe in happiness, because it was my desire for happiness that brought me to the end of today: I have squandered my savings for three years, leaving my wife and children alone. I have returned to the starting line of the past, but I have no illusions about the future.
After many years, another woman appeared next to me. After only a few days of acquaintance, we cohabited. Her appearance is short and ugly, but I don't care because she is rich. She is responsible for spending every day with her, and I quickly got used to this kind of day. About half a year later, I learned from others that she was a woman with a family and her husband had not returned from working abroad. I am very angry. Is it true that women can't keep empty houses alone and can betray their families at any time?
I began to beat her, scold her and force her to leave me. She begged that she loved me and would not leave no matter how much I hated her. "As long as you agree to stay with me, I will use my own money to help you restructure your career." This sentence worked for me. For this fantasy, I had to force myself to continue living with her. Half a year later, her husband came back and soon found me. After several talks, we decided to let the woman decide who to live with.
We two men are not sure who she really loves, and I face her choice in a complex mood. As a result, in front of our two men, she finally chose me. She went abroad, and I was looking forward to meeting her, but she lost the news. Is happiness really coming this time? Of course not. I feel that I have fallen into a more troubled circle, and the feeling of love has completely subsided. A family with a false name has put a heavy burden on me.
I don't know when all the housework in the family has been under my name. Cooking, washing, cleaning, washing and mending have become my work. Over time, it has become my habit to do these things, but she fully enjoys this kind of life.
She gave me a promise, and in this life, she never mentioned it again. I couldn't help asking her, she promised to help me realize my dream, and she immediately reminded me with that catchphrase, "Don't forget, I divorced my husband for you! Do you have any conscience, I have paid so much for you, what qualifications do you have to ask me..."
It seems that my relationship with her is only a subsidiary relationship. I'm just a princess's friend. Her anger and joy dominate everything in my life. How can such a relationship last? Last spring, she went abroad and invested in a project abroad. For our common future and my own dream, we borrowed money from our friends. I also took out some of my savings to help her prepare for the early stage. She said that when everything was arranged there, she would take me to make money and settle down.
Later, after she arrived there for a few months, good news spread frequently. According to her instructions, I also began to prepare my luggage, but suddenly, her phone could not be reached. She seemed to have evaporated! I waited for her news with hope and nervousness, but after several months, she still had no news. I am completely hopeless. The tens of thousands of dollars she owed to go abroad became the heaviest burden on my shoulders. I didn't want to bear it, but I couldn't get rid of it. Are women so cruel? Do I really have no chance to get a true love in this life?
True love needs to be exchanged with sincerity
On the other side of the emotional hotline, there are often frustrated readers who are unable to find true love. Each person's reasons are different. To sum up, the most important thing is to be clear that when you want to get true love, you should be prepared to pay your true love first.
When a person's search for love is mixed with too many impurities, it is possible to meet someone who has the same idea as you. You attach your feelings to the superiority of material life, so you should be prepared for the other party not to pay the truth. Life is like this. Sometimes what you get will be different from what you want, but it will be related to what you pay.
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