Each of us has our own social circle, which is normal. However, in the editor's opinion, if the atmosphere in the social circle is good, it is also very good for everyone to encourage each other. However, the reality is not as optimistic as we imagine. In the eyes of gender experts, extramarital love is like a plague, which can spread among friends.
Many women know the truth that 'extramarital love can be inherited', thinking that marrying a man from an innocent background and a very harmonious family relationship is all right? absolutely wrong.
Extramarital love "is not only a congenital genetic disease, but also an acquired infectious disease.
Even if a man grows up and marries in a completely unruly family, 'extramarital affairs' may not necessarily spare him. This time, the virus is spreading in his friend's social circle. A man who makes friends a little carelessly will be captured by the flourishing virus and the city gate will fall.
As a species where male hormones dominate the mind, the animalistic nature of men is very evident. Vanity and good face are one of the essential attributes, while being unwilling to be lonely and stimulating is the second essential attribute. If one's moral values are not fully shaped from a young age, and after gaining some social status, they are often driven by "animal nature" and choose a few wild flowers to show their identity and status.
This type of person may not be many in their circle of friends at first. They unconsciously bring the virus of "extramarital love" into the circle and promote it through various "male power displays". The weak willed group will soon follow suit. After the flames of the stars burn into a prairie fire, and everyone in the circle of friends holds a Valentine's card "Jieyu Flower", the one who is loyal to marriage becomes an out of place alien. Rao is a man who doesn't want to betray his wife. If he wants to integrate into this circle again, he must learn some tricks and tricks. Moreover, in order to keep secrets, the cheating group will always use all means to persuade and motivate these moral gentlemen to step down, and then supplement them with long-term "personal action" and "setting an example". It is only a matter of time for men's moral decline and imitation.
For women, a man's extramarital affair is always a nightmare, easy to encounter, hard to get rid of, and hard to get rid of. It is contagious like a plague, able to prevent this moment, but not that moment. It is possible to lay the groundwork for him in his early childhood, or to capture the city and land in his middle age
What women can do is not only to forcefully cut off a man's symptoms when he has a premonition of infidelity; More importantly, it is about cultivating one's character and mind, allowing oneself to have a stronger inner self and a more attractive appearance. When a man completely loses, he turns around and seeks a second spring in life.
In summary, extramarital love is really not a good thing, and it not only harms oneself, but also harms the people around us. In the end, it's all just a matter of drawing water from a bamboo basket and getting nothing, and the originally beautiful family will also be scattered as a result. If you still have your own children, they will hold a lifelong grudge against you in their hearts.