Extramarital Love: Exploring 12 Wrong Marriage Reasons for Women
Core tip: We cannot force marriage to be the purest crystallization of love. However, when faced with such a significant choice in life, a moment's thought may make you regret it for a lifetime.
The first wrong reason for getting married is to degrade in order to get married.
The second wrong reason for getting married - to escape the family.
This is a common mistake that girls make. In order to break away from an unhappy home or escape control and yearn for freedom, girls often use marriage to achieve their goals. In fact, this is fundamentally an illusory form of false independence. Blind marriage is nothing but jumping from one pit of fire to another. Flying out of one's own home, believing that getting married is a way of changing one's lifestyle and embarking on a new life, but it is just a childish dream.
The third wrong reason for marriage - to be ordered by one's children.
You will be surprised that despite the convenience of contraception, the frequency of such old stories still remains high. Although the version of the new era is slightly different, when a woman coerces a man to get married, although she claims that the other person is just a stallion and dares to be an unmarried mother, she still puts old wine in a new bottle. I'm afraid if I want to trap someone else's heart, I'll also be trapped.
The fourth wrong reason for marriage - to disobey parents' orders.
No one can deny the magic of love, but whether parents think their children are too young or that their children choose inappropriate lovers, they may cause a strong reverse psychology psychology. Especially those with rebellious personalities often resist in order to resist. However, it should be noted that this may be the most dangerous and worst time to resist parents' claims.
The fifth wrong reason for getting married is to marry a wealthy man.
Who can say it's not good for women to find a golden mountain to lean on? Looking at money in everything, although seeking wealth may not necessarily lead to success in other aspects!
The sixth wrong reason for getting married - just because he is a handsome and handsome guy.
Everyone loves handsome men and beautiful women, and the power of beauty is invincible. Except for beauty, all other necessary conditions are lacking, which has become a great tragedy. Moreover, don't forget that the depreciation rate of appearance is very high!
The seventh wrong reason for marriage - for sex.
Believe it or not, men are more likely to become victims of sex. Men often marry women who are not their favorite in their hearts, but rather use bed to restrain them.
The 8th wrong reason for getting married - because I am lonely.
Modern people are not afraid of everything, they are afraid of loneliness. Men and women just keep pestering because of loneliness. Better to argue and kill than to feel alone.
The 9th wrong reason for getting married - seeking a sense of security.
Security is something that no one else can give except to oneself. Think about it, I was willing to give you a shoulder to lean on, but now I'm unwilling. What can you do?
The 10th wrong reason for getting married - getting rid of being single.
Many women still do not believe that both late marriage and non marriage can be a mature choice. Factors such as the urging of the physiological clock, social pressure, and fear of being an elderly parturient can all lead people to get married in order to break the single situation. The most absurd thing is that a woman told me that even if she gets divorced after a week of marriage, she still has to get married once.
The 11th wrong reason for getting married - wanting to be a bride.
Are you exaggerating? However, there are indeed many absurd women who consider marriage as a program. Dressing up, taking photos, and entertaining guests not only have fun, but also fulfill the bride's dream.
The 12th wrong reason for marriage - love requires marriage.
In fact, love does not necessarily require marriage. Modern people have many love opportunities in their lives, like a string of pearls, each with its own completeness and charm.