Post Date December, 03 2023
Throughout history, many marriages have been unhappy due to the inability to support each other spiritually. The person who leads a happy life is often mentally matched. So, if you want to have a good marriage, you need to understand yourself and each other.
I remember a teacher once said in class: When you like someone, don't rush to get married. You need to think carefully about how much you like each other and how long will you like them? If you are not sure that you will love each other all your life, then it's better not to marry them easily.
Because before getting married, you thought you could go through fire and water for love, but after getting married, you may not necessarily see the happiness that comes from love. Are you the most perfect couple? Let's see. Emotion is the ability to engage in dialogue in the depths of the soul, and being mentally matched is the best marriage.
Many people are unhappy in marriage because they only appreciate it before marriage, but find themselves unable to integrate into the other party's values after marriage. Because the differences in the three perspectives often lead to disputes and arguments. The reason for this is because the two people's spirits are not on the same level.
The things you appreciate are ignored by the other party. The beauty you like, the other person has no time to care. The taste you pursue is considered a waste by the other party. When two people have a disagreement, there will be many unnecessary troubles. So marriage became a competition between the two parties. Therefore, I cannot understand what happiness is.
If it weren't for meeting someone who taught you how to love, you wouldn't know how it feels to encounter beautiful love. A good relationship must know how to appreciate each other, understand each other, and give the best love to each other. We often see many couples living together for a long time, with a married face on their faces. Why is this happening? Because many similar understandings and hobbies in life have assimilated two people.
Two people have the same understanding of the same thing, and even if they have different opinions, they know how to seek common ground while reserving differences. Husband and wife became the best friends, and when they were together, it seemed like this was already the most beautiful state of life. Even if they drank plain water, the two of them felt extremely happy. Because they found the happiness of being together. The reason for this is because they have already recognized and appreciated each other in the spiritual world.
Between husband and wife, if they can resonate spiritually. Even if you don't say a word, you won't feel unnecessary. Even if you say a lot, you won't feel tired of the other person. The best marriage requires both spouses to have common goals and plans. If you want to conquer each other's hearts, you must make yourself knowledgeable, powerful, and an encyclopedia of each other.
Looking at the women around the emperor from ancient to modern times, you will find that each of the four major concubines in the palace has their own unique strengths. The reason why they were conferred the titles of virtuous or virtuous concubines by the emperor must be because they entered the depths of the emperor's heart spiritually. If there is no appreciation from the emperor, then one cannot live in the emperor's heart.
