Post Date November, 17 2024
The different demands of men and women for speed seem to be a mistake made by God when he created humans. Men can achieve it in three to four minutes or even one or two minutes, while women have a 15 minute to half hour difference in their time in the drama. The sharp scissors difference is destined to be a natural law.
I hate watching with you the most
The husband is extremely excited and naturally solves problems more quickly than usual. So fast, I didn't react much. Afterwards, he fell asleep soundly, but I really wanted to, unable to sleep for half a day. Which woman has never tasted the feeling of being hung up and thrown in the air?
Tracing the root cause of errors
1. You are always in such a hurry, like standing in the office holding a departmental meeting.
Don't constantly complain like a resentful woman, every man is afraid of women complaining about their dissatisfaction. Don't endlessly emphasize to him that you need a longer time to have it, as it will make him think that being slow is to yield to you, and it is a form of sacrifice and dedication. In fact, slowing down brings equal pleasure to both parties, why not take it seriously.
2. Controlling rhythm is a man's job, and he has an obligation to satisfy me.
You can't expect him to just stand in the middle of the road waiting for your climax, can you? If you think this way, the slow thing may be that he is singing a solo performance alone, and such a heavy task will tire him a few times. Men are sometimes very foolish and require clear instructions from women. In fact, it's not difficult for a man to slow down a bit. Try to move and lead him with your tenderness, and the rhythm is completely under your control.
3. It's too unfair. He can reach orgasm every time, and I don't have any fun during non slow time.
Don't mess with yourself like this, no woman can achieve orgasm every time. This is God's arrangement. Even when you haven't reached orgasm, you still enjoy the pleasure of sex.
Learn to be a slow and independent woman
I'm too lazy to pay so much for sex, it's a man's business. If you think that way, it's a pity. I think you'll never experience slow art again. In 'SEX the CITY', almost all women are independent and autonomous. Losing the rhythm of sex is his old idea that the final say to be an independent slow woman in bed.
Can you make him slow down a bit? Can you talk about slow down during a walk or outing. The pace of walking with each other was half a beat slower than usual, and even reminisced about the leisurely and slow afternoons of childhood, so there was no need to rush to drag the topic to bed. To borrow the words of Milan Kundera in a novel, slow is a pleasure that is being lost, and there is a unique secret connection between slow and memory, fast and forgetting. For example, when a person is walking on the road, when they want to recall something, they will unconsciously slow down their pace. On the contrary, if they want to quickly forget what happened earlier, they will shake their heads and move forward in a meteoric manner. Starting in such a metaphysical way, he will relax his vigilance. Alright, now he has started to listen carefully to you, and even has some nostalgic resonance. You can slowly get to the topic.
Let Tifanny tell you how slow art in bed is created. That night when I went to bed, I deliberately put on all my weapons and even wore socks. After taking a shower, he came in naked and looked at me in surprise. I reached out my foot and let his chest flow through the stockings. Slowly, dazzled in the eyes. When he took off one sock for me, I dodged the other foot. Dear, the slow undressing ceremony can be so slow that you can hear the other person's breathing clearly, and the slow undressing ceremony is so interesting. All we need is patience, just constantly using every organ of our body to communicate with each other.
I admit, in this kind of sex, I am the protagonist. We must constantly come up with ways to communicate with him, he, he, say love words, recall or imagine the various beauties of love. I don't want him to feel dull because he's slow, and his emotions are created artificially, especially when he's not necessarily accustomed to such a rhythm. Later, I even bought a recording clock and played a sweet and melodious piece of music every ten minutes. The last paragraph of the music is his favorite 'Mysterious Garden', where the soothing and mysterious rhythm is the horn of charge
Wonderful slow love trilogy
1. Foreplay
Talk to him about being slow. Describe a wonderful slow paced sexual experience that can be shared by both of you or hearsay. With a look of recollection or longing, it is stirring enough to move him. If you think doing this in person is too sweet, you can write an E-MAIL to him. Even during working hours, men do not refuse to read a colored letter, and they usually find it very emotional.
2. Midway
You can find various ways to slow down the speed. For example:
Wear complex underwear and play a game of taking off underwear
Make an agreement with him to challenge the time for sex together. Men like to play this game, knowing how long their time is and extending it are both their passions.
Kiss him all over his body at the slowest pace you can tolerate. The progress of the fact will definitely be slower than expected, as it will take a certain amount of time to give back to you.
Strictly control and do not be soft hearted. If he wants to accelerate, you can get out of bed and get a glass of milk for him or stop moving and sing a nursery rhyme in his ear. Calm down for a few seconds, he can last longer.
3. Afterwards
Slow love is indeed beautiful, and its greatest function is to make you remember it and often reminisce about it. For example, the unforgettable moments in love may support you in helping each other through a lifetime. However, if you want to always maintain that passion for love, you may also be mentally ill. So don't expect to be so slow and good every time. The rhythm of the city itself has determined that we cannot continue every sexual activity for two hours. What you need to do is not to let sex keep pace with the city forever. After a while, plan a slow love while everyone is very relaxed.
