Post Date December, 03 2023
The greatest distance between the heart and the heart is not the body, but the wall in the heart. This wall does not exist, but it will gradually accumulate with the passage of the couple's life. Adding bricks and tiles to the wall is the suppression of feelings.
If feelings are suppressed for too long, walls will appear
Men and women can only come together when they like and appreciate each other, but the combination is largely due to the need of love. If there is anxiety in the process of feeling love, and your needs are not met from the other party, the feelings will quickly fade. The ability of each other to make each other happy will decline, and feelings will naturally be suppressed. If both parties do not feel safe to talk about their feelings, they will suppress their feelings and close the door of their hearts. Both men and women keep suppressing their feelings. Over time, a wall will be built around their hearts.
Destroy the wall and rekindle love
Maybe you can feel love constantly at the beginning of love, because the other party always tries to meet their emotional needs. At that time, the emotional wall of the mind did not block your mind. And once that wall completely blocks your hearts, the feelings of love will no longer exist.
In order to retrieve the feelings of the past, we must completely break this wall. Whenever we try our best to meet each other's needs, it is like removing a brick from the wall, which will make a small beam of emotional light shine into our hearts and make us feel satisfied. Through successful communication and mutual satisfaction, the big wall will be broken gradually, and the fire of emotion will burn again.
Couples should learn to meet each other's emotional needs
After marriage, many couples tend to be "pragmatic" and think that the pursuit of material is the most important. They completely ignore the real needs of each other. In fact, only when we understand each other's needs and try to meet them can we experience each other's feelings most deeply. If what you need is exactly what the other party can give, then need and dependence will open the floodgates of feelings. The more successful mutual satisfaction is, the more reliable the husband and wife will be in their support and the stronger their relationship will be. Therefore, please try to learn to meet each other's emotional needs.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
