Post Date December, 03 2023
Marriage is a science, which needs the joint management of both husband and wife. Some people can manage well, while some people end up in haste. In fact, good marriage management has secret weapons to follow.
Secret weapon 1: weakness
Weak women can make men more protective. Because men like the feeling of being needed by women, so if you want your husband to love you, love you and spoil you more, be weak. When a man gives you the love you want, you must not give directions, because it is disgusting. You should express your gratitude to your husband for his help. No matter how small the task is, thanks are indispensable. Because of your praise, your thanks will make her regard you as a hero. Only when you regard a man as a hero, can a man put more feelings into you.
Secret weapon 2: let him act spoiled
A man is not made of iron. He also has setbacks and vulnerabilities. When a man has such emotions, he must give him the warmth of his mother and let him play coquettish in front of you. And when you give him the protection of his mother's color at this time, he will relax himself, rebuild his confidence, and at the same time make her more loyal to you.
Secret weapon 3: maintain a sense of mystery
Sometimes, if everything between husband and wife is in a transparent state, it is not conducive to the maintenance of the relationship between husband and wife. Therefore, it is very necessary to appropriately give a little mysterious color to the marriage. Because people have this idea, what they can't get is the most beautiful, and what they want to know but can't know can more stimulate men's desire. Plus, men have a natural desire to conquer. Your reserved, inexplicable and difficult to control is the most fascinating thing for men. Distance produces beauty, so does marriage. Sometimes let a man accompany you with the desire to conquer, and it won't feel very hard. In fact, it is a great pleasure.
Secret weapon 4: give him a flexible space
Men need to be respected, and women need to be loved. The best respect for husbands in marriage is to give men enough flexible space to show themselves, so that they do not feel bound. Only when the wife in marriage does not check the post frequently and does not filter his friends and hobbies, can men not want to "escape from prison". Therefore, wives must learn to reduce their desire for control. When they want to blow the breeze, just let go. Because men are not your private property.
Secret weapon 5: keep silent properly
When your husband wants you to show off something, just listen. After listening, don't forget to "worship" him, and give affirmation to your worship. When your husband shows off or brags like you, it is just his lack of confidence. You give him affirmation at this time is a fountain of water for him. Therefore, a wife must make her husband understand that he is the most beautiful in your eyes, so that both husband and wife can be more harmonious in the future marriage.
Secret weapon 6: keep tolerance
Everyone has their own bad habits, and everyone will make mistakes. Anyone who sees a beautiful woman can't help looking at her twice. At this time, a wife must allow a man to occasionally play games day and night, drink to get drunk, and forgive him for looking at that beautiful woman too much, because a man does not think so differently. If his appreciation is good, his love for you will only increase.
Secret weapon 7: belittle yourself and make progress by retreating
It is an uneven fact that Yang is flourishing and Yin is declining. Therefore, the wife chose you not to say that you are not so excellent, but because you met earlier than others. Therefore, it is more beneficial to strengthen the intimacy of each other by appropriately devaluing yourself in front of others and deliberately exposing your weaknesses.
Secret weapon 8: moderate jealousy and jealousy
Nowadays, many young people cohabit first whether they marry or not, so that their sensitivity to love decreases. They feel like an old husband and old wife only a year after they get married. This is actually very bad. Therefore, women's proper jealousy can make men care more about you, because men will not like a jealous girl. When a man finds that his wife is jealous, a little bit of jealousy will go away. At the same time, let him know that you have a special liking for him, which will make a man feel more comfortable with you.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
