Early sex education should not be shy of answering the six rules for children's sex education

The quality of early education determines a child's lifelong sexual beliefs. Parents must let their children know from a young age that sex is a serious and beautiful thing, and ultimately become normal and healthy adults.

Firstly, family education should pay attention to letting nature take its course, but pay attention to seizing the opportunity. The best time to provide sex education to children when they ask sexual questions. Parents should look into their children's eyes with a smile and answer candidly. For example, when a child asks the question of where I came from, parents should let the child know that he was born through a romantic union between father and mother. Specifically, when parents love each other, they like to approach, kiss and embrace, which can indicate that they are having sex. The father placed the penis in the mother's vagina. Mom has many small eggs in her stomach. Dad has a special type of semen that contains sperm, which combines with eggs to absorb nutrients and gradually grow into a baby. If children talk about these things from a very young age, then when they enter puberty, they can easily talk about sex, and they have also learned how to consult their parents about this issue.

In addition, parents can develop a sex education plan based on their child's age and cognitive development, and determine the teaching content and methods for each stage. Guide gradually and scientifically based on the actual situation of life. For example, for infants and young children, the initial content of sex education is to help them understand their bodies, form correct gender identity (with the same biological characteristics) and sexual role positioning, prevent sexual oppression, correctly answer various questions raised by children, and learn friendly games with heterosexual children. For example, a child may be interested in their own genitals, telling them to know their body while bathing, pointing out their reproductive organs, and giving them the correct names. The child looks at their genitals as naturally as they look at their own hair. For children aged four or five, they can also use animals with male and female differences in appearance for gender difference education, which also helps to cultivate children's observation ability, develop their thinking and imagination. For example, male animals in the world look better than female animals. The male peacock has a large tail, bright feathers, can open its screen, and is very beautiful, while the female peacock has a bald tail. The focus of sex education for childhood children should be on the origin of life. In order to make them understand that my parents love to have children, the answer is simple and clear. You can use the situation of animals and plants to explain the principles of sexual union, fertilization, pregnancy, and childbirth, or directly explain human sexuality and reproduction. Discussing pregnancy and childbirth with children before the age of 8 will not make them feel difficult. After entering elementary school, talk to girls about menstrual phenomena to prevent them from panicking during menstruation and even creating a dirty impression of sex. After entering middle school, parents can carefully explain to their children. Sexual activity should be between spouses and is generally divided into three stages. Marginal behavior, such as the process of holding hands, includes substantive behaviors such as hugging, kissing, and touching, also known as purposeful behavior. In this process, the second stage is the most important, and unmarried individuals must control their behavior during this stage. After children reach adulthood, in addition to educating them to avoid sexual activity as much as possible from a moral perspective, they also use contraceptive devices such as condoms to protect themselves.