Post Date December, 03 2023
Don't trust men's "ifs"
"Although men often tell lies that are extremely harmful to women, they can easily be trusted by women for a simple reason: men can also be sincere when they say them.". If you arbitrarily assume that a man is lying to you when you hear these words, you may also miss a good man who truly loves you.
So, how can women neither be deceived nor miss a man who truly loves you? Let's first take a look at the "lies" that people love to say. Let's identify the true and false together, and then decide whether to believe them or not, or under what circumstances they can or cannot believe them:
Lie 1: I won't touch you
This usually occurs before a man cheats you into bed. "If he says he wants to 'find a quiet place to talk to' and you dare not or refuse to follow him in opening a room, he will say 'I won't touch you' to make you put down your guard;"; "When you enter the house, you won't be able to explain why you agreed to open a room with him in the future.". Of course, there are generally no things that force you to happen. Men will use their warm embrace and eager claws to gradually disintegrate your will to tighten your belt. The environment urges affection.
Lie 2: You are my favorite woman and will definitely be my last woman
This is clearly a flawed polite statement, which literally shows that a man has or has had a group of "lovers", and you are just one of the ones he is hugging in front of him. How can a amorous man who always changes women be credulous? Unfortunately, the grand aspiration of women to "not be the first/only the clearinghouse" has triumphed over reason at this moment. Women are particularly fond of believing lies that cannot be practiced or supervised. What she wants in her heart is only men's love, the more the better. As for whether the promise can be fulfilled, women do not fully care.
Lie 3: Let me buy you something someday
In order to make women happy, a man has begun to seduce them with material inducements and is actually shooting empty cannon. In fact, he really wants to spend money on you, and still uses "Wait for what day"? How convenient it is to buy things now, and it's not a time of material scarcity. If you want to buy something, you have to entrust someone to get a ticket.
Myth 4: I will always love you
Everyone knows that forever is not far away. The short "forever" often only lasts for a few months, and the long "forever" can last for many years. However, once something unexpected happens in the middle of the journey, he cannot be with you anymore. Even if he still loves you, what is the use of this forever for you who yearn to be with you? "I will always love you" is not as powerful as "I want to marry you", is it.
Myth 5: I will definitely get divorced
"This is the most disgusting statement, and often deceives infatuated women into being disoriented. You quickly discover that there are countless reasons why he cannot divorce: If he has no children, he will say that his wife and his parents get along well, or that he owes his wife love, and the wife is right, so he must slowly find a chance to showdown with her and not hurt her too much;"; If there are children, when the child is young, he says he will wait until the child is older; When the child is old, he says he won't leave until the child goes to college; When the child becomes an adult and moves into society, he will say, "Now proposing a divorce affects the child's ability to find a partner."; "When the child gets married, he still has words to deal with you, telling you grandly that he cannot sprinkle salt on his grandson's young soul, or even take him to kindergarten..."
