Post Date December, 03 2023
In marital life, many people argue and argue over small matters. They always think that small, super, and small breasts are a form of communication, and that couples only argue when they have feelings. In fact, some things, don't think they are just small things, may lead to a complete breakdown of your marital relationship in the next second.
1. Always arguing about the same thing.
Couples always argue repeatedly about the same thing, just like standing still, unable to solve any problems, and will become increasingly upset and trapped in a dead cycle as the arguments continue.
Behind the arguments and excuses is a sense of fear, as both spouses are deeply afraid of being abandoned, rejected, or deemed inappropriate. Only when both spouses have complete mutual trust and unconditional love for each other can they showcase their shortcomings. Find the trigger for conflict and strive to change it, in order to avoid repeatedly arguing about the same thing.
2. Low emotions affect each other.
A husband said, "When I come home after work, I feel very happy, but my wife is very tired and also under the pressure of work. This has ruined my good mood. I think it's much easier to make others feel bad than to make them feel better
Low emotions can easily affect each other. However, people can choose not to be affected by their spouse's low emotions, and when the other person's emotions are low, they must remain optimistic. Over time, one party's positive and optimistic emotions can drive the other party out of a low mood.
3. Mutual satire and sarcasm.
Some people believe that expressing feelings is safer than opening up to the other person, but this may be aggressive. Because this may convey emotions such as anger and frustration to the other party without expressing your true thoughts.
Understand your true thoughts and what you want to say before telling the other person, and never use words that reveal "anger" or "disgust".
4. Overly concerned about the other person's physical health.
The wife often complains that her husband "doesn't take his health seriously", and then feels that he is irresponsible towards the family and doesn't love his wife.
This is a 'coexisting' marital relationship where one party assumes responsibility for the other's health and therefore exercises control over the other party, which can be frustrating. Forcing others to do things can only lead to mutual dissatisfaction and hatred. Many couples believe that they must keep pace in order to be happy, but there are significant differences between different people and these differences should be respected.
