Post Date December, 03 2023
Once I went out to dinner with a friend and heard two boys chatting at the next table:
"Do you remember the girl I told you about last time? I'm done."
"So fast, it hasn't been a week, it's awesome."
"It's best to catch up with a girl like this. In the evening, I took her to a movie, then I ate some dessert, and on the way home, I went to the supermarket to buy her a big bag of snacks. When I got home, I sent a text message saying that I agreed to be with me, saying that no one had ever been so kind to her."
... the boy talked proudly.
"I heard him mouthing a girl like this, which made me feel bad psychologically.". Which girl is not the treasure in her parents' hands, the pearl in their palms.
How to get to him has become a good bargain to pursue.
Perhaps we can't identify scum men at first glance, nor can we speculate on the bottom line of scum men.
The only thing we can do is love ourselves and always keep ourselves independent and beautiful, so that we won't appear humble in a relationship.
Xiao Qiu and her boyfriend recently quarreled again, yes, again.
The explosive point of the incident was a video of Xiaoqiu seeing his boyfriend and other women playing games in a bar in her circle of friends. But not long ago, he told Xiao Qiu that he needed to work overtime.
Xiao Qiu was very angry and called to question him, but he ignored him and angrily scolded her for making trouble for nothing.
After a week of cold war, Xiao Qiu still went to apologize to her boyfriend and made up.
"I really hate iron for not becoming steel," I asked her, "It's clearly his fault. What are you sorry for?"
"Xiao Qiu seemed to be comforting himself and said, 'In fact, sometimes he treats me very well, and I also have mistakes. It's too aggressive...'"
Me: "..."
I can't evaluate the feelings of this enemy too much.
But I want to tell all the girls. "Baozi type" girls are the easiest to be bullied. Men feel that you are both easy to chase and coax, and you can walk around easily.
He just wants to find a lonely partner and fall in love, not choose you for a long time.
You are like the rubble on the edge of a cliff. One day when a strong wind blows, you will fall into a vast abyss.
If a boy pursues you effortlessly, he will definitely not cherish you, because you have become a bargain in his eyes.
You are always trapped in anxious self denial. Inferiority complex doubts about what he did not do well to make him unhappy, and your grievances and requests for forgiveness are completely ignored by him.
You look cute and gentle, and you didn't apologize to anyone, but in fact, the person you most apologize to is yourself.
So, learn to protect yourself and not make yourself too easy to pursue.
Girls need to be proud and charming to be cute.
