Sexual intercourse is a pleasant and enjoyable thing, but it does not mean that one can do whatever they want, without taboos. It is best not to do certain things during sexual intercourse, otherwise it will disrupt harmony, affect emotions, and even cause sexual apathy.
Don't compare your lover to others, and when two people are warm, don't say comparisons. For example, "Your figure is very good, only slightly inferior to a certain movie star", "Among the people I know, you perform the best"... Even if you sincerely praise the other person, this kind of behavior can easily cause misunderstandings. Make the other person feel that you are thinking of others during sexual intercourse, which can make them feel uncomfortable.
2. Don't only value sexual intercourse and ignore emotional communication. Sexual intercourse is closely related to life and requires a good emotional foundation. If two people do not have any emotional communication. It is not only difficult to achieve orgasm by simply seeking pleasure through sexual stimulation. And they will doubt each other's intentions, and their hearts will increasingly reject sex.
3. Do not blindly believe in pornographic movies and learn sexual skills or theories from erotic products. It is inherently wrong, and in pornographic films and TV dramas, there are often exaggerated and deductive methods. It can only be used as a stimulant for sexual activity, and if imitated blindly, it may backfire. It can also reduce sexual desire and cause female frigidity.
4. Don't use it all at once, it's clearly being in a relationship with the other person. But they also need to occasionally check their phones, pay attention to the TV, and even consider working. When the other party is in love, such behavior is easily detected. This can dampen the other party's enthusiasm and even trigger arguments.
5. Don't force yourself to act. Even forcing the other party, some couples struggle to have sex when one party is in a bad mood, not only failing to achieve sexual harmony. It can also cause aversion from the emotionally negative side, and if it occurs repeatedly, it can lead to sexual apathy in women or impotence in men.