Don't ask her again, 'Is it a date?' The truth of 16 tragedies keeps you from dating again

01. The phone call is almost extinct. A large part of your relationship is maintained through WeChat. So save a few more emoticons and learn some facial expressions as well.

02. It's impossible to make arrangements in advance. If the girl doesn't prioritize you, it's highly likely that your invitation will receive responses such as' Maybe ',' I'll take a shower ', and' I'll let you know when I get there '. The final answer depends on whether she has received a more interesting invitation than you.

03. Even if the girl hurts you, rest assured that she will not receive retribution (at least not recently). We know this may seem unfair, but many times the person who betrayed will start the next stage comfortably, while the person who was dumped will live a miserable life.

The only criterion for whether your behavior is "romantic" or "abnormal" is whether you are handsome or not, how much savings you have, and whether she is interested in you.

05. Some women only want to go to bed. If you want more than just physiological needs, she will tell you after playing with you that you are a good person, but we are not suitable. (At this point, you need to think about whether it's because you're not durable enough...)

06. We both want the other party to think that we don't really care about them that much, so we're all playing the game of "intentionally waiting for several days to reply to SMS/WeChat", which is actually not easy to play at all.

07. She actually received the WeChat message you sent. If there is no response, it is definitely not a problem with Jack Ma or Zhang Xiaolong.

08. A person who appears completely indifferent because they are not interested in you, and a person who is very interested in you but doesn't want you to think he is very interested in you and intentionally appears completely indifferent, look the same.

09. Social networks have created more temptations and opportunities for cheating. Sending a private message or praising the other person's photo does not necessarily mean cheating, but it definitely increases the chances of cheating.

10. Social networks also give people the illusion of 'I have many choices'. People tend to view products like Weibo/Momo as a catalog of handsome men and women, rather than using it to connect with friends.

Only after you have truly established a romantic relationship with the girl can you see her plain face.

12. For any woman who is with you, there are only two endings between you, either forever together or one day they will part. Both of these futures are equally terrifying.

When dating a girl, she won't directly tell you her thoughts, but instead will post a Weibo/Renren status/Instagram photo with a sunrise image and a few lyrics. Although I won't mention your name, that's what I wrote for you to see.

Although she is your woman, there will always be people who ignore your relationship. If they want to give you a emerald green hat, they will put it on without hesitation.

15. Whoever likes the other party less will take the initiative. No one wants to be the person who likes the other person better.

If you get dumped, it will definitely be very tragic. She will break up over the phone, so as not to see you crying. Or simply a WeChat message, even the sound of you sniffing is avoided.